My SIL is lurves drama.
I have 2 SILs that live for drama. Over the years I have become expert at diverting conversation with them. Both have spouses that are completely mellow quiet non-drama kind of guys. But apparently they like the drama despite claims to the contrary. Don't get it.
In relationships there is good drama and bad drama. Your husband having a restraining order for your son as a condition of the court, not good drama. (one of my employees that has family drama)