Xander: Am I right, Giles? Giles: I'm almost certain you're not. Though, to be fair, I haven't been listening.

'Sleeper'


Natter 64: Yes, we still need you  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


msbelle - Aug 05, 2009 11:04:16 am PDT #2191 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Maybe I will look at all my single male contacts in LA tonight on Facebook and see who would be good for Allyson.


tommyrot - Aug 05, 2009 11:04:26 am PDT #2192 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Although my brain works in weird ways. When I think "real man" I picture the guy from the Marlboro ads... dressed as a cowboy, riding a horse, smoking, gay....


shrift - Aug 05, 2009 11:04:55 am PDT #2193 of 30001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

What does it mean when a woman's profile says she wants a "real man"?

If you're lucky, possibly she means she wants a man who isn't a Apatow-esque man child or a spray-tanned dudebro with ridiculous hair.

If you aren't lucky, she's been conditioned by a patriarchal society to expect a man to conform to her own bizarre set of rules, and if you can't do something on her checklist, you have failed at being a real man.

I am a woman and also real, but I suspect that I don't qualify as a "real woman" most of the time.


tommyrot - Aug 05, 2009 11:05:21 am PDT #2194 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Also, "Real Man" and "SNAG" are on opposite ends of the spectrum.


msbelle - Aug 05, 2009 11:05:56 am PDT #2195 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I am pretty sure those women are not looking for the Marlboro man or even a hetero version of him. ijs. If that is the only thing in the profile giving you pause, take a shot.


DavidS - Aug 05, 2009 11:06:33 am PDT #2196 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

When I think "real man" I picture the guy from the Marlboro ads... dressed as a cowboy, riding a horse, smoking, gay....

Well, they do love "real manliness" in the Castro.


msbelle - Aug 05, 2009 11:07:27 am PDT #2197 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

you need a new spectrum Tommy.


tommyrot - Aug 05, 2009 11:07:31 am PDT #2198 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I am a woman and also real, but I suspect that I don't qualify as a "real woman" most of the time.

Yeah, you could stand to be more dainty.

(kidding!)


Allyson - Aug 05, 2009 11:07:58 am PDT #2199 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I always think that "real man" = mook.

I see a lot of requests from men that state that they "don't want any drama" and "no games."

I have no idea what that means, either.


msbelle - Aug 05, 2009 11:09:38 am PDT #2200 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

any statement like that "real man", "not a jerk", "no games", "no drama" - it means this: There are these other people I dated that I didn't end up liking, or they broke my heart - don't be like them.