And let's be honest, there are a lot of people out there who think people who are overweight, or not gorgeous, or have this flaw or that (me = bossy, child, loud) shouldn't be surprised that we are single. I've been flat out told that the population that would find me as an attractive mate is really very small.
Hmm. It's sounds like the finest party I can imagine getting paid to go to.
Mal ,'Shindig'
Natter 64: Yes, we still need you
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
msbelle - Aug 05, 2009 10:01:56 am PDT #2144 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
tommyrot - Aug 05, 2009 10:03:27 am PDT #2145 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
I've been flat out told that the population that would find me as an attractive mate is really very small.
That's crazy talk!
erikaj - Aug 05, 2009 10:08:26 am PDT #2146 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!
Me too, more or less. But in my case, they think they're being kind.
Allyson - Aug 05, 2009 10:09:42 am PDT #2147 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica
I've been flat out told that the population that would find me as an attractive mate is really very small.
Me too. I hear that as well. I'm okay with being alone in a way I wasn't before, but it'd be nice to find someone, you know?
I feel like my hypocrisy is being angry that people i think are beneath me intelligence-wise are insulting by thinking they have a shot with me. I mean, I am sure that there are lots of people who think I'm beneath them physically-attractiveness-wise, are they angry when i send them a wink?
I don't know. Maybe it's unfair to be angry.
sarameg - Aug 05, 2009 10:09:51 am PDT #2148 of 30001
I don't have anything to add to this topic except that I am happy with my level of picky. Which is very very very.
ION, holy hell, I've got to run a tour of muckity mucks because my bosses are all going to be gone. Do not want. And am getting butterflies about inviting people over after work tomorrow. Must hit send. lisah, please be there to hold my hand.
Burrell - Aug 05, 2009 10:10:08 am PDT #2149 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Really msbelle? Gee but aren't people assholes sometimes?
Also? I think this country is really big on telling women how much they suck and how crappy their odds are of finding either love or happiness. There's a whole industry out there that feeds that kind of thinking.
erikaj - Aug 05, 2009 10:11:01 am PDT #2150 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!
more than one, actually.
msbelle - Aug 05, 2009 10:11:04 am PDT #2151 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
I'll not argue that the population may be small. I will argue that I shouldn't be surprised.
I think I'm fabulous and so are most of the choices I make - it wouldn't make sense for me to be anything other than surprised that people don't want to be a part of it.
When I look out do I see a lot of me-ness? - nsm, and yet always, surprised.
Burrell - Aug 05, 2009 10:14:05 am PDT #2152 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
And I should add the caveat that yeah, we're hard on men too in this country.
Glamcookie - Aug 05, 2009 10:15:40 am PDT #2153 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
God, people are rude and just mean. What kind of shitheel tells someone this kind of crap?