The suburbs aren't all bad. I live in the suburbs and work in the suburbs. Actually, I very rarely go anyplace in the the city that isn't suburbs. How suburban is my workplace? My office overlooks a gated community on a golf course. This is also why I can't afford to live close to my workplace.
My office is on the edge of a forest preserve (we have deer that stroll right up to our windows and will leave their fawns tucked under the trees around the pond until they return from their foraging). Luckily, my apartment complex is only five miles away and is as affordable as you can find in a 30 mile radius.
I also don't go downtown too often, unless it is to meet up with localistas or my nephew during the school year. And I definitely need my car to get around, although there are a lot of cabbies who take people around, mostly seniors, who don't want to drive. If I can lose some of my weight, I'd like to get a bike next year to take into work on the nice weather days.