It's okay, Steph, you went to parochial *school*!
Man, I walked right into that one.
(Right?)
You betcha!
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'Shells'
Natter 64: Yes, we still need you
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Steph L. - Sep 29, 2009 2:33:47 pm PDT #11409 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Hil R. - Sep 29, 2009 2:38:05 pm PDT #11410 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
With the addenda of the victim saying "I consider it resolved." Then you have a very similar case. If the victim is saying "Nail the bastard already", it's not a similar case.
Allowing the victim's wants to have that much sway gives way too much power to the accused to either pressure or pay off or threaten or otherwise coerce the victim into saying that. Which, once again, gives the advantage to whoever has more money and power. The criminal justice system works on behalf of society, not on behalf of victims.
And besides, he has already been convicted of the rape. Just hasn't been punished for it. At this point, it isn't between him and her; it's between him and the state of California.
dcp - Sep 29, 2009 2:39:30 pm PDT #11411 of 30001
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.
Tech-minded Buffistas, how can I tell if I have 32-bit or 64-bit Windows XP?
Win+Pause is the keyboard shortcut to system information.
bon bon - Sep 29, 2009 2:41:10 pm PDT #11412 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.
If that were any kind of standard, a great deal of child molestation, family abuse and both stranger and acquaintance rape would never be prosecuted.
Polter-Cow - Sep 29, 2009 2:43:04 pm PDT #11413 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
Win+Pause is the keyboard shortcut to system information.
You can get that by right-clicking on My Computer, but I can't see where it says 32-bit or 64-bit.
sarameg - Sep 29, 2009 2:43:20 pm PDT #11414 of 30001
This keeps bugging me:
My biggest issue is that they're continuing to make the victim a victim, when she clearly no longer wants to be seen as such.
No, HE is. His actions kept her in the limelight. He's at fault.
Jesse - Sep 29, 2009 2:43:47 pm PDT #11415 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Just to be clear here, it wasn't consensual sex that people are calling rape because of the statute. He forced vaginal and anal sex on a 13 year old who was saying no, who he had given champagne and qaaludes. I don't think a western culture in the 20th century finds forcible sex of an adolescent "ok."
I mean, seriously.
Connie Neil - Sep 29, 2009 2:43:50 pm PDT #11416 of 30001
brillig
Is there a 64-bit XP? I thought there was only Vista in 64-bit.
Jesse - Sep 29, 2009 2:44:57 pm PDT #11417 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
You can get that by right-clicking on My Computer, but I can't see where it says 32-bit or 64-bit.
Really? Mine says "System type: 32-bit operating system."
Polter-Cow - Sep 29, 2009 2:47:05 pm PDT #11418 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
Really? Mine says "System type: 32-bit operating system."
All it says is Microsoft Windows XP Professional, Version 2002, Service Pack 3.