So I saw the movie last night with Beau and I am still trying to process my reaction in light of all of your own and Beau's. This is long. So apologies.
Beau did not read the book. He had a very negative reaction to the movie. I see his points actually about what he didn't like in the film, but I liked the film more (but was still a bit disappointed in some elements of the film). Beau equates HG with HP:HBP (which is a movie I really disliked). Beau hadn't read that book either and thought HBP is a better movie than HG.
Which seems like extreme blasphemy to me. Now for the spoilers.
Some things I liked:
I really really liked the actor who played Peeta. I took one look at him and wrote.him.off. By the end of the movie, I was totally in his court. That said the dialogue with Katniss and Peeta in the cave was some of the cheesiest shit EVER. I thought I got dropped into ABC Family all of the sudden. Not cool.
Like Debet, I also saw this movie in a theater with a gaggle of pre-teens/early teens and I could hear girls giggling through out! I nearly lost my mind. They did an "aww" during the scenes we see Gale looking at the tv when Katniss was kissing Peeta. Really? Oh, I guess I no longer remember what it was like to be 14.
I think what I have reconciled is that I really liked seeing a book I enjoyed on screen. Generally speaking, many parts of the film were close enough to my mental image that I did not experience much dissonance. I found, on that level, that I really liked the film. However, as someone who read the book, I am not sure I think this movie stands alone. It is always true that movies lose some subtlety in adaptation, but I feel like too much subtlety was lost.
Beau didn't really come away from the film understanding the story the way most of us do. For example, he really didn't see Katniss as strong. He said: she only killed 2 people! Which I suppose is objectively true, but that is not what I thought reading the book. We saw more of her internal struggle and her growth, and what a survivor she was. He focused on how much help she needed to complete her goals (and in that way, she is not different from Harry Potter!). So I'm wondering if the marketing of the movie for the non-readers was misleading?
He also was pretty appalled by the lack of screen time for Thresh and he thought that Rue should have been more cutthroat. Like try to cut her when Katniss hugged her. He couldn't believe she died saying she wanted the pretty White girl to win. Since we had more exposure to the characters in the book, it did not come out like that to me when reading, but I can see that point of view in the movie. We didn't see that they formed a relationship and that kids survived by forming alliances. We also didn't see Rue's true talents in detail.
Beau also did not get that the arena is in a dome (or similar structure). He thought Panem had the technology to create a forest fire storm WHEREVER. So he did not get the technological disconnect and that it takes a lot of effort and planning to booby trap a defined space. So he was not impressed with the society as depicted because it seemed too close to our own.
Oh and btw, guess who his favorite character was? Effie. He said that Cinna came off as a pedophile!
Seriously. I am not sure that a lot of people who haven't read the book would experience the movie this way, but Beau certainly did.