I thought the last five minutes was a little pat, but I liked all the developments until then.
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In response to Big, is it a prevailing opinion that a thirteen year old (chronologically and mentally) having sex with an adult woman is icky?
Well, it's my prevailing opinion.
Prevails for me too. I just had someone try and excuse it, though, on the grounds that the woman couldn't have known. Uh, statutory rape is a crime that is suffered as well as committed, and I think that experiencing it is the key thing to prevent (if experiencing it and causing it could be separated).
There aren't a lot of thirteen-year-olds, girl or boy, who don't look at least underage, even if they look older than thirteen.
Also, ew.
is it a prevailing opinion that a thirteen year old (chronologically and mentally) having sex with an adult woman is icky
It is now; might not have been when the movie was made. Some things are changing for the better.
Nowadays any adult woman who has sex with a boy younger than, say, 17, is generally considered a pervert. Which does not mean there isn't a juvenile mentality that responds "Lucky boy!"--but that is not the approved social response, because of the possibility of abuse and the implied double-standard.
I totally missed the Big reference. Oops.
But I don't remember -- did she know he was a kid in a man's body when they did it?
I don't think so.
She didn't know, but I think that just makes her not a perpetrator. He's still a victim.
No, she never knew. And the having sex part pings me less than the "Not telling his parents and them thinking he was kidnapped for a month". Of course, the age-change-magic-handwavium part is such a huge leap and ithe entire film takes place in such a candy-colored universe that I kind of go along with the flow.