Ah, the pitter patter of tiny feet in huge combat boots. Shut up!

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Vortex - Feb 13, 2009 6:40:54 am PST #898 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Question: when someone comes to clean your house, do you tip him or her? I'm not sure if it will be the owner of the business or not. (it's an independent small local company thing)

I have a general rule -- if you do an extraordinary job, you get a tip. Exceptions to this rule (in the sense that an exception means always tipping) are waitstaff and taxis. I think that tipping is a reward for going above and beyond. Just doing your job doesn't get you a tip, IMNSHO.

When I had a housekeeper (pauses to savor the constant cleanliness that has been absent in the new place), I gave her a holiday tip or tipped if I'd forgotten to leave the top lock unlocked and she had to come back, etc.


Steph L. - Feb 13, 2009 6:52:26 am PST #899 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Exceptions to this rule (in the sense that an exception means always tipping) are waitstaff and taxis. I think that tipping is a reward for going above and beyond. Just doing your job doesn't get you a tip, IMNSHO.

What about hairstylists?


tommyrot - Feb 13, 2009 6:53:23 am PST #900 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Or massage therapists?


Calli - Feb 13, 2009 6:58:47 am PST #901 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My last massage therapist was anti-tip. She said she felt she was a professional running a business and charging what her services were worth. I don't know how wide-spread this point of view is, though.


tommyrot - Feb 13, 2009 7:00:25 am PST #902 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

When I tip a massage therapist, the reaction seems to be, "Oh, you want to tip me? Cool!"


Vortex - Feb 13, 2009 7:13:50 am PST #903 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

The last time I had a massage, I tipped because it was a truly great massage. I don't necessarily feel obligated to tip for that. As for hairstylists, if I really like the cut or they made space for me at the last minute or I was running late and they still got me out on time (which happens embarassingly often), I tip. I go in for a trim or a touch up, not so much.


Trudy Booth - Feb 13, 2009 7:14:19 am PST #904 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

From the link on the milk/mucus thing:

Q: Do dairy products help produce excessive amounts of mucus?

A: No, that is a myth. Dairy products to not enhance mucus formation, but your saliva might be slightly thicker after drinking milk. This is natural and not related to mucus.

So, its not technically more mucus it just makes your spit feel like mucus? Seems more like misunderstanding than a proper "myth" -- singer skipping it is probably a good idea.


Scrappy - Feb 13, 2009 7:18:31 am PST #905 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I always tip my hairstyist. 20% to be shared between him and the hair washing person.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 13, 2009 7:21:44 am PST #906 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I tip: servers, bartenders, taxi drivers, people who do my nails, food delivery folks, hair stylist, hotel housekeeping, and masseuse.


Steph L. - Feb 13, 2009 7:25:30 am PST #907 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I always read that for service employees who aren't the owner, a tip is customary (like hairstylists, massage therapists, etc.), because what the cut costs isn't what the stylist actually earns.

But that could be a scam perpetrated by the hairstylists of the world.