Which... I guess is my rant. *g*

Pfft. Far too reasonable to be a rant.

There are just too many factors that go into a person's physical makeup for society to judge on one thing only.

Yes, but our culture will anyway. I don't see our culture's pathological obsession with dieting and weight to be the same thing as "health."

Healthiness is well-being, and fitness and eating sensibly and not being sedentary. It's not the same thing as fat-bias.

And, as Jessica notes, having a gym bag doesn't make you douche-nozzle.

The point of a virtue is not to judge people who fail that standard, but to have a standard to reach for. We articulate our values so we can be mindful of them.

I don't see a single problem with saying: "I should do things that promote my health. It is good to do those things."

That doesn't equal: "I should despise and mock people who do unhealthy things."

Because advocating education doesn't mean you hate people who are uneducated. Unless you're just an asshole. Which is separate from the whole pro-education agenda.

The conversation started here:

Toddson "Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed." Apr 10, 2009 9:16:52 am PDT

So to answer the original question, no, I don't think there's a connection between health nuts and assholes except that some people are both. People with overinflated senses of entitlement will apply it to just about anything.

Did somebody say it did? I think I missed that, if so.

That's where the conversation started. Toddson's question (specifically linked to obnoxious, gym-bag wielding people) was whether there had been a shift in cultural values to advocate Health as a virtue at the expense of other virtues, like Civility.

I took it kind of personally because I'm a person who exercises who is also kind of clumsy and flaily. But I'm generally polite I hope!

But I'm generally polite I hope!

I can speak to this point: You are! Also, I don't think of you as clumsy.

Healthiness is well-being, and fitness and eating sensibly and not being sedentary. It's not the same thing as fat-bias.

But people see someone thin and think Healthy! and they see someone not thin and think Unhealthy!

And fat bias creeps into it. It does in so many ways. From the BMI held as the be all end all of health achievement by most people to someone looking at a woman who is a size 20 and automatically assuming unhealthy or that she needs to lose weight to be healthy. Even if, in reality, she works out and is in great physical shape.

I suspect the people who use "health" as an excuse to not be civil would find an excuse (as opposed to a reason - but that's a whole other argument) not to be civil if suddenly health wasn't a virtue. Which is basically the "assholes will be assholes" argument, and I agree with that.

Toddson's question (specifically linked to obnoxious, gym-bag wielding people) was whether there had been a shift in cultural values to advocate Health as a virtue at the expense of other virtues, like Civility.

Yes. That was how I understood her post. I wouldn't have summarised that as:

going to the gym and then riding the bus home automatically makes someone an asshole who hates fat people.

But I guess YMMV.

Oh, and on the gym bag thing, I don't think that is really a symptom of what I am talking about. There are assholes with gym bags, grocery carts, babies and suitcases on the bus. There are assholes without these things. There are polite and nioce people with and without these things, too. Conclusion, some people are assholes.

I don't think health = thin is true, but I think that there is a movement by advertising to equate diets and diet products and clothes that make you look thinner and clothes that are only for thing with health in order to sell products, which is leading to a sometimes unhealthy obsession with weight, especially for women. Obviously this isn't a new thing, it just seems to be more prevalent recently, what with Weight Watchers taking something that is health based (life-style change etc) and using it to market their diet.

I also have this theory that somehow getting rid of corsets and girdles, while seemingly freeing, has somehow lead to us trying to make ourselves into a girdle shape through self control.

I think the gym-bag and stinky clothes people are very much in the same group as anyone else who uses a 'virtue' (parenthood, veganism, religious faith, being a hard worker) as an excuse to act like they're more important or valuable than everyone else around them. ETA: And can therefore get away with ignoring common social niceties.

talking about how disgusting they are for allowing themselves to become a size six or eight. Showing either their "flab" and pinching it so we can see how "disgusting" they are or showing how their clothes are hanging off their bodies but they won't buy new ones until they are the desired size. Mocking themselves by saying they are an impossibly huge size, which happens to be smaller than my size.

I don't know your co-workers, obviously, but I'm inclined to wonder how much of that is fishing for reassurance that they do in fact look fabulous.