I am like unto connie WRT sleep(non)wear, but I always do make sure I have one of my tee-shirt-like but much longer lounging things nearby to throw in in case of emergency. I love them, actually - they're t-shirts, but below the knees. So comfy.
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Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
It is Spring Break at Casa Holt. [link] Bobby and friends.
I can smell the chlorine.
I don't think there's a problem with advocating good health as a personal virtue. In fact, I support that notion. It is virtuous. It's better for you, and it's better for the society. If smoking had been banned in offices decades ago there would've been hundreds of thousands of fewer deaths by second hand smoke. I think banning smoking in bars and restaurants similarly spares restaurant workers.
I'm not convinced there's a direct correlation between advocating health (and I have a hard time seeing why anybody would think that's a bad idea), and the culture of shame and judgment about obesity. Or even non-skinniness.
It may give some people a place of smug superiority upon which to rest their judgments, but people are weird about culturally derived notions of beauty. Fair skin used to be in, then tans, now fake tans. Different body shapes and types have been in vogue in different eras and cultures. There's always going to be some hierarchy of culturally derived desirability.
Getting on my flight in Charlotte 5 hours late. I feel like Drew.
I only wear pants to bed if I have a houseguest.
See, that's when I don't wear pants.
Visited a bunch of relatives. I don't really want to get into details right now, but I just need to say, Alzheimer's really really sucks.
sorry, Hil
Thanks, Vortex. I've got one relative who died of it, two more in advanced stages, and one who might be in the early stages. (Well, OK, two of those four aren't technically relatives, but they're either married into the family or such close family friends that they might as well be family.) It's just tragic and terrifying to watch.
I've had standard dementia in my family, but early onset alz in a close family friend which has been difficult to say the least. It sucks and its heartbreaking and awful. I'm sorry you have to go through it too.
I'm sorry, Hil. It is horribly difficult for the loved ones.