Giles! I accidentally killed Spike. That's okay, right?

Buffy ,'Never Leave Me'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


ChiKat - Nov 09, 2009 5:57:22 am PST #29744 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

there aren't any copies of sheet music or what have you to be had

If you know someone musically talented, they could write out the music just by hearing it. I'm not that person, but I have a friend who can do that.


Fay - Nov 09, 2009 6:10:59 am PST #29745 of 30000
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

If you know someone musically talented, they could write out the music just by hearing it. I'm not that person, but I have a friend who can do that.

Fair point - but, see, being someone who knows nothing about sheet music (and can't afford to pay a pianist/musicians) I'd just been thinking in terms of playing music for people to sing along to, rather than getting somebody to play the music on an actual instrument.


Polter-Cow - Nov 09, 2009 6:13:28 am PST #29746 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

they warned that there aren't any copies of sheet music or what have you to be had

Not officially. But this is why we have fandom.


Fay - Nov 09, 2009 6:23:29 am PST #29747 of 30000
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

P-C, you are foamy like a foamy thing covered in foam. I heart you like Romeo hearts Juliet, Mulder hearts Scully and Robin hearts Batman. You are made of pure, unbridled WIN. Here, have the internets. And a cookie. And Veronica Mars on a silver platter.

loves P-C muchly. Also loves Fandom.


Vortex - Nov 09, 2009 6:49:57 am PST #29748 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Meanwhile, people with young daughters - how gorgeous are these Steampunkish ensembles?

I am particularly amused by the attitude/poses of the wee models.


meara - Nov 09, 2009 7:57:31 am PST #29749 of 30000

Did no one learn when Emily drove cross country and her cat ran under the brake pedal??


Daisy Jane - Nov 09, 2009 8:04:34 am PST #29750 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Anyone got any particular tips on Betta care from their own experience? I've been reading MASSES online about how to try to keep them from expiring (for I have something of a fishslaying reputation...) but would appreciate any first-hand tips!

Don't overfeed him. They can be picky eaters and it may take a couple of tries before you find the right brand of food. Keep his water clean and conditioned. They don't need an awful lot of room, but they're more active the more they can swim around. Ours is very reactive. He has a little dance he does when we go to the tank.


beekaytee - Nov 09, 2009 8:26:11 am PST #29751 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Barb, two suggestions: get a towel or something that completely covers the carrier and drape it over it so they can't see out and feel more protected. This helped a lot the last time I had to take the cats on a long drive.

Also, maybe try feliway (kitty pheromones) spray for the carrier to calm him down.

Perkins is made of wise. I hear great things about Feliway.

The biggest mistake I ever made with my cats of olde was to "let them see out" on our drive from SF to SD. Oh, the yowling, oh the beleaguered humanity.

Plus, Barb, you could try Rescue Remedy. It's a Bach Flower Remedy you can find in any healthfood store. A few drops rubbed into the underside of the ears, or in a water bowl (served BEFORE the trip) might help.

Our new vet rubbed some into the fur on Bartelby's face during our last visit. He actually fell asleep. In. the. vet's. office. I cannot overstate the awesome of this!


beth b - Nov 09, 2009 8:33:12 am PST #29752 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

If you are going to let them out of the carrier a barrier between the front and back seat is a good idea on a long trip


WindSparrow - Nov 09, 2009 8:34:21 am PST #29753 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I second the Rescue Remedy recommendation. It does seem to wear off in 2-3 hours, so you'll have to re-apply it. I also second the recommendation to keep the cat in the carrier.

Here is a paragraph out of my LJ entry on the cats, and the move:

As we were warned that Sammie was at special risk of running away in a panic, I made sure to get new harnesses and tags with updated contact information for them. We used retractable leashes to let them stretch their legs at rest areas. After a couple days on the road, things were going so well, that I thought I could handle taking both cats at the same time out for a little walk in the picnic area at a rest stop in Iowa. I carried them down to the furthest, loneliest ramada, and let them down to walk a bit. Suddenly a family with small children walked up to the ramada we were at. The children did what came naturally to them: They yelled, "Kitties!" and ran right at us. Before I had time to do more than lock down the leashes from extending all the way, Harvey's leash got caught in a bush, and he stopped running. Sammie took off, got to the end of her leash and began flipping out. She flipped and jumped and flopped against the leash so hard that her harness got loosened, and she got out of it, and started running. She was headed straight for the highway. I ran after her but there was no way I would be able to catch her without help. Thank Heavens for the observant people in the parking lot. A man who was just getting out of his car saw what was happening, opened his car door wide and stood in her way. In a split second she turned and was running up the hill the building with the bathrooms was on, and other people quickly formed a circle to stop her. She froze, and then I was able to get hold of her. Carrying her, I went back to get Harvey. Then I took them back to the van, thanking everyone we passed for their help.