Oh, I get it. You just don't like who did the rescuing, that's all. Wishin' I was your boyfriend what's-his-height. Oh wait, he's run off.

Spike ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Nov 05, 2009 7:43:19 am PST #29386 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Surgery~ma to your DH,Connie.

And if I could have some no-flu-yet~ma, please, I'd appreciate it. I'm starting to feel a bit feverish and wheezy, with intermittent coughing and headaches. I just don't have time for this until December. Let me get the flu around Christmas, that's fine. I have a massive project at work that I have to get done in November.


omnis_audis - Nov 05, 2009 8:10:45 am PST #29387 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

thanks for the mammories
Wow! That is a great attitude for such a hard time in life. Tons of ~ma for your friend, Glam (kind of fitting I used my new pink ribbon bag this morning).


Vortex - Nov 05, 2009 9:25:52 am PST #29388 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

, took her first shower since the surgery this morning!))

there is no better feeling than that first shower after surgery. Not only are you dealing with the aftermath of surgery, you feel all gross.


Burrell - Nov 05, 2009 9:54:12 am PST #29389 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I have no advice for Hec and JZ. We totally caved on the sleeping-with-the-'rents front. While Frances usually sleeps by herself all night, Isaac crawls into our bed roughly 4 nights out of 5. And he's a lot of kid to have in bed.


Aims - Nov 05, 2009 9:59:02 am PST #29390 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

When we were still in our 1 bedroom in LA we eventually put our bedroom in the living room because it was the only way any of us were going to get any decent type of sleep.

JZ - can you and Hec take the smaller room E is in and he and Matilda can share the other?


DavidS - Nov 05, 2009 10:04:49 am PST #29391 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

JZ - can you and Hec take the smaller room E is in and he and Matilda can share the other?

We're considering it as they get older, but we can't really subject Emmett to four hours of crying a night. It's not his job to put her back to sleep.


Pix - Nov 05, 2009 11:21:18 am PST #29392 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Maybe just make the living room a living bedroom (put your bed in one corner and use it as a couch/bed) and leave M and E in the actual bedrooms? I know it's not graceful or ideal, but it's what a lot of people did before we developed the idea that bedrooms should be separate from living spaces. It might be a way to at least be able to shut M's door at bedtime.

Not here, btw. Seeking momentary distraction because school is making me crazy.


Stephanie - Nov 05, 2009 11:53:53 am PST #29393 of 30000
Trust my rage

Yeah, I have no successful kid sleeping advice. Frisco has always slept with us. Ellie sleeps with us about 97% of the time. I've considered working on getting Ellie to sleep on her own, but I know that once Joe deploys next year, she'll be back in bed with me, so, we're just living with it for now. Talk to me in 2011.


Barb - Nov 05, 2009 11:58:34 am PST #29394 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

I tell you, I'm feeling like the Meanest Parent Ever. The sleeping in one's own bed thing was the one thing we were absolutely firm on.

My kids may not eat a lot of vegetables, but they slept in their own beds. I think I'll take that tradeoff.


Jessica - Nov 05, 2009 12:02:50 pm PST #29395 of 30000
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Dylan's never slept in our bed except once or twice in hotels. When we've tried to calm him down by co-sleeping, he just winds up wanting to play.