Honestly, you meet the most appalling sort of people....

Giles ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

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Sparky1 - Nov 05, 2009 3:20:37 am PST #29355 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

Connie, may the Inquisition in your DH's skull go well.

Barb, the morning in your house sounds vaguely like the morning in my house. Only the dog goes back to bed after being fed, usually in the spot I've had to vacate to feed her. My sympathies.

I had my first Facebook notification of the death of someone in my high school class (no hair pats necessary, we weren't close friends although we did spend lots of time together in the same group of friends and I haven't spoken to him in 20+ years) and it was sort of unseemly in that there seemed to be a bit of a race to be the one to break the news to the group. Also, I asked for an address to which to send a note, and the person who posted just told me to send an email to his mother. It doesn't feel right to send my sympathies that way.


WindSparrow - Nov 05, 2009 3:50:31 am PST #29356 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Ma for the swift excommunication of the skull lutherans.

I like the way Brenda said this so much, I'm not going to bother trying to say it for myself. Much ~ma.

Also, getting better as well as not getting killed ~ma for Barb's kids.

Sparky, I see what you mean. I don't have any solutions for it, though.

Turkey nuggets with stuffing and cranberry on a stick sound like a perfect breakfast to me. Too bad we aren't likely to have any.


Steph L. - Nov 05, 2009 4:27:10 am PST #29357 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Connie, all my digits are crossed for your hubby. Begone, Lutherans!


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Nov 05, 2009 5:12:47 am PST #29358 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

~ma for you and your hubby, Connie.

Today cancelled due to migraine. Typical.


beth b - Nov 05, 2009 5:18:07 am PST #29359 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sedig the ma~~~ to your husband Connie


Fred Pete - Nov 05, 2009 5:20:44 am PST #29360 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.

~ma for Mr. Connie.


Ginger - Nov 05, 2009 5:21:04 am PST #29361 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I hope everything goes well at the de-lutheraning, Connie, and he has a quick recovery.

I'm hoping that today will be a day without the nagging dull headache I've had all week. It's not a bad headache; it's just keeping my brane from working.


JZ - Nov 05, 2009 5:28:52 am PST #29362 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Lots of surgery-and-Lutheran-shunning~ma to your husband, Connie, and lots and lots of coping~ma to you.

And, Sparky, yeah. An emailed sympathy note would have Miss Manners reaching for her smelling salts.

Ugh. Matilda was up last night from 12:30 to about 4, the last hour and a half howling, then whimpering, then grunting with increasingly exhausted rage at not being allowed into our bed. Hec just bundled her and Emmett out the door, surely late, full of what I think for our coffee maker is roughly a quadruple latte but still staggering and barely functional.

It's got to get easier at some point. It's just got to.


Sparky1 - Nov 05, 2009 5:40:57 am PST #29363 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

An emailed sympathy note would have Miss Manners reaching for her smelling salts.

I found the obituary and will follow the "in lieu of" instructions for a donation to the Hospice that cared for him rather than using email.

It's got to get easier at some point. It's just got to.

May it happen sooner, rather than later. Is there a chance of getting her into her own room soon so she can scream her adorable little head off with a wall and a door between you and her?


JZ - Nov 05, 2009 5:47:39 am PST #29364 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Is there a chance of getting her into her own room soon so she can scream her adorable little head off with a wall and a door between you and her?

None at all. We could maybe turn the computer nook, the only other remotely bedroom-like space (a cold, drafty, leaky-in-the-rain space at that) in the apartment, into a bed nook, but from the nook to our bedroom door is a straight, doorless shot right down our bowling-alley central hallway. The only other room with a door is Emmett's, which generally contains Emmett, who's now an official teenager and unenthused about sharing a room with a 3-year-old girl still in nighttime pullups, even if she's a sister he adores during the day.