I want to torture you. I used to love it, and it's been a long time. I mean, the last time I tortured someone, they didn't even have chainsaws.

Angel ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Oct 28, 2009 2:07:05 pm PDT #28407 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Choice quote from today, "When you look at what you've written here, can you tell the difference between good writing and bad writing? Or do you think this is good writing?"

I wonder, Hill, when he thinks of what he's said there, can he tell the difference between good advising and bad advising? Or does he think this is good advising?

'Cause I've got some notes.


Steph L. - Oct 28, 2009 2:10:48 pm PDT #28408 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Hil, do you have to keep him as your advisor? Is it possible to switch?


Hil R. - Oct 28, 2009 2:13:01 pm PDT #28409 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

It's not possible to switch now. He's the only person in the department working in the field that I'm working in, and it's way too late to switch topics.


Scrappy - Oct 28, 2009 2:15:11 pm PDT #28410 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

"When you look at what you've written here, can you tell the difference between good writing and bad writing? Or do you think this is good writing?"

Is this because you told him (as you said here) that you know all the writing isn't good and that's not what you are working on right now? Or did this come out of nowhere? The guy sounds like he totally doesn't get you or your process at all--which makes him pretty much useless as an advisor. Do you have anyone else with Math chops you can send your work to for a beta read?


Hil R. - Oct 28, 2009 2:17:16 pm PDT #28411 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Is this because you told him (as you said here) that you know all the writing isn't good and that's not what you are working on right now? Or did this come out of nowhere?

This was on something that I thought was pretty close to a final revision.


Ginger - Oct 28, 2009 2:18:23 pm PDT #28412 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Have you talked to the department chair about this SOB, Hil? (I hope he isn't the department chair.)

I never wanted to be a princess. I wanted to be a paleontologist. My favorite fairy tale was Tom-Tit-Tot, which was a version of Rumplestiltskin, because the girl wins using her wits. I also admired her ability to eat five pies.


Hil R. - Oct 28, 2009 2:27:13 pm PDT #28413 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Have you talked to the department chair about this SOB, Hil? (I hope he isn't the department chair.)

I really don't think that would help anything. I'm not sure the department chair could actually do anything, and I know that my advisor won't actually listen if the chair talks to him.

I posted this in GWW, but I figured I'd ask here, too -- anybody willing to take a look at my teaching statement? It's about 2 and a half pages, and I can email it as a Word file. I just want someone else's eyes on this before I send it out.


smonster - Oct 28, 2009 2:30:39 pm PDT #28414 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I wanted to be Eowyn. Except for the whole settling down to heal people thing.

Or Leela from Doctor Who.


smonster - Oct 28, 2009 2:32:39 pm PDT #28415 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hil, I don't have any advice. Only lots of sympathy for you and antipathy for your soit dit advisor.


JZ - Oct 28, 2009 2:40:58 pm PDT #28416 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Or Leela from Doctor Who.

If she'd existed when I was little, I totally would've wanted to be Leela from Futurama.

Actually, I should start taking notes now for next Hallowe'en, since there's no way I can get a proper Leela going in three days.