I'm not saying that his apology was any less than well-timed and truly gracious(honestly far more so than some of the women who are dining out on this) Personally, I don't fault him for the comparison, but I guess I can see their point. I'm just ticked because a woman stranger is questioning my committment to feminism because I was amused by someone's comment on the subject, and she tried to "school" me or something. I really hate that. Feminism is not a country club...we should be looking to keep folks(both men and women) in, not kick them out. And it's too hard to explain why something is funny anyway. I kind of love innuendo, but maybe I just needed a laugh *that badly* yesterday, I don't know. Sometimes things just tickle you(and I don't mean porn) what can I say? Nice of her to assume the worst. ETA: She'd really dig my tag, too. Wonder if Rahm ever got anyone to go along with that one.

I really hate to be That Person, but I recounted the penguin story to a co-worker, and they sent me a Snopes link:

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Maybe Dudley Zoo has some kind of "got a penguin, leave a penguin / need a penguin, take a penguin!" policy that Snopes is not aware of?

I really want this story to be true!!

Dammit Jessica! You're why we can't have fun stories!!

It wasn't me! I didn't even Google it!

You're more than welcome to be "That Person" if it makes you feel good, Jess. I've known Natalie for nearly four years, and she's Cordelia-level blunt and honest, so if she tells me that this happened to her, improbable as it is, then I'm going to believe her.

You're getting this at "a friend of a friend" level, so feel free to treat it like junk mail.

I'm so glad Jessica posted that before I did. I didn't want to be the penguin pooper.

What is the polite thing to do? The other day I told a friend she had retold me an urban legend and she seemed kind of miffed. I do it a lot and I feel like I'm preventing people from continuing to repeat stories and being embarassed later on when they find out the truth. If it's a harmless story like the penguin would it be better for me to keep quiet?

Is the UK getting a different result because bunches of mid-level sick people DO exist and actually seek medical treatment? Are more Americans becoming critical because they put off/forego medical treatment?

That's a really interesting question. We do have massive Tamiflu centres here, handing out pills to anyone with enough symptoms to be likely to have H1N1. The government's being criticised for this policy - which clearly has some major drawbacks and is a colossal waste of money - but it is potentially saving lives, too. I was so ill before I got hold of Tamiflu, I can see how I might have developed serious complications without it. (But I'm in a high-risk group.)

In short: do you need to waste buckets of money to keep people from getting critically ill? Or is there a better system somewhere in between?

Edit, because I really need to learn to check I've finished all my sentences before posting. (And again because I can't spell.)

do you need to waste buckets of money to keep people from getting critically ill?

And if it works, does it really count as waste?

Fay, it honestly never even occured to me to doubt the penguin story until I scrolled down that link and saw Dudley Zoo mentioned in the (supposed) original version of the story. Now I don't know what to think.

I sometimes hear a good true story and repeat it as though it happened to me. (and hilariously, once repeated it to the person who told it to me) I suspect Fay's friend believes the story is true but that it didn't actually happen to her.

And unless the school district is relatively wealthy, teachers will have to supply their own.

I supply my own hand sanitizer and my own Kleenex. In fact, my room has been Kleenex-less for 2 weeks because I ran out and can't afford to go buy some. We've already gone through 2 boxes this year that I bought. I've asked the kids to bring some in and have even offered bribes (not extra credit, that's not allowed but we have these incentive wooden nickels that they can "buy" candy with on Fridays at lunch). So far, no takers.