Inara: Mal, this isn't the ancient sea. You don't have to go down with your ship. Mal: She ain't going down. She ain't going anywhere.

'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Shir - Oct 25, 2009 11:20:04 am PDT #27893 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

God, P-C. I'm so sorry for all the suckinesh, but you go girl (in a manly way, of course).

They do that? Seriously? That's just... weird.

It's a bit like when my English teachers at uni used to refer to all nineteenth-century literature as 'Victorian'. Eventually I developed some reading skills (and some general knowledge), and started going, dude, Regency is not Victorian, and Austen was not reading Dickens in her spare time, and there's a whole lot of contextual difference there that we should be paying some attention to. Like the Industrial Revolution. Just, you know, for fun.

YES.

These professors of yours are single-handedly destroying the good name of sociology, Shir. I'd be annoyed if I were in your position, too. (There are sociology departments where historical context is appropriately dealt with. Really, there are. They aren't just mythical constructs from a utopian dream of some kind.)

Not all of them, to their defence.

Only the major class of this year. And look, I can control my inner history geek most of the time. Like when my lecturer claimed today that Mary Wollstonecraft was the first who published a feminist text in the age of Enlightenment (let the definition of Enlightenment aside for a moment - hello? Olympe de Gouges? Somebody? 3 years before Wollstonecraft?), but. Marx was not early 20th century character (though yes, you can squeeze Weber into it, but you can't forget that he grew up in the second half of the 19th century.) The beginning of the 20th century was post the industrial age in the west. You cannot rape the scientific revolution into the 19th century, trying to explain rationality and the idea behind scientific experiments.

Sociology has a lot to say. But after sitting in these classes, hearing them bend history beyond recognition, all I want to do is some historical research and forget all about sociology. I'm thinking about talking with one of the lecturers about it, too. In some cases, I can forgive the reduction of the historical background. In other cases, I can say they're pulling it straight out of their asses. Because I haven't read the 1008 pages of this in vain.

Hey, maybe I could inform them there is a valid background in historical research of calling 1853 - 1991 "The long 20th century", but other than that (of which they don't use), there's not much between historical facts and what they teach.


Steph L. - Oct 25, 2009 11:33:57 am PDT #27894 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Guess who has Magic Beer in her fridge right now!

Nom nom nom!


meara - Oct 25, 2009 11:51:02 am PDT #27895 of 30000

Thanks for the hugs and hairpats guys--the afterparty went a lot better (and look for some hot pictures with me in them to be tagged on facebook in the near future. Yum! The video should NOT, however, be showing up, as the person taking it has promised it is for private use only. Ahem. I mean, it was all in public, and clothed, but still). And today at brunch, there was recognition of good new friends, and good new connections with old acquaintances, even while there was shared sadness of new sorrow and hurt. So...a better and uplifting ending, I think. At least for some of us--one of my friends is facing a really tough future when she gets home and has to deal with her now-ex-friends, and it's going to suck hard for her, and I feel awful. Long story, but...gah.


sj - Oct 25, 2009 12:04:11 pm PDT #27896 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Meara, I'm glad your evening improved. -ma for your friend.

We had a blast at King Richard's Fair, and it was a gorgeous day outside.


omnis_audis - Oct 25, 2009 12:09:26 pm PDT #27897 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

anyone have any spare steam? I've seemed to run out of it. This new building is tapping me dry. Nothing is easy. Hopefully I will get tomorrow off. but it looks like I need to go to the sound shop for a replacement antennae on the wireless mics, order batteries, and get my car cleaned, as parking under the tree next to the theater means bombardier practice for the 200 birds that apparently live in it.


vw bug - Oct 25, 2009 12:15:07 pm PDT #27898 of 30000
Mostly lurking...

::sneaks in::


sj - Oct 25, 2009 12:16:07 pm PDT #27899 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

vw!!! Where have you been hiding?


vw bug - Oct 25, 2009 12:17:47 pm PDT #27900 of 30000
Mostly lurking...

At work.

ETA: And helping my parents get ready to move. I probably shouldn't be here right now, as *I* should be getting ready to move, but...there you have it.


Ginger - Oct 25, 2009 12:37:54 pm PDT #27901 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

But after a while, I realized that even though she was pissed, my mom didn't stop talking to me forever,

Unfortunately, they always say they're going to stop talking to you, but they never do.

I urge others to set better boundaries than I have. I trek home every holiday, even though I dream of having my own Christmas. We spent so many years under siege that the relationship between my mother, sister and I is probably not particularly healthy.


Hil R. - Oct 25, 2009 12:53:06 pm PDT #27902 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Hi everyone.

I got my job applications sort of organized today. I need to talk to someone to find out how I'm supposed to organize the letter of recommendation -- for the online applications, the professor just has to submit it once and I attach it to whatever applications I want to attach it to, but I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do for the paper ones.