You know though, as much and as long as I have mentioned to my friends that if I ever had a girl I would name her Lucy? I'd be annoyed if they chose it.

Maybe not angry, but they would at least get an eyeroll.

While I can be prone to hypochondria, I think I have a ruptured eardrum. For about a week, my ear has felt really full, but I could clear it by swallowing hard or doing the valsalva to pop my ear. But over the past 2 days, it won't pop, my hearing in that ear is quite reduced, and -- most notably -- there's a LOT of (I believe this is the scientific term) Oozy Ick in my outer ear. It's not wax; it's nasty crusty Ick. And when I clean it away, within a few hours there's more.

It doesn't sound like my ruptured eardrum, which was a huge relief of gushed-out liquid at ass o' clock in the morning (I woke up because my pillow was soaked and my ear suddenly didn't hurt, something I recall nearly 30 years after the fact) after a huge, weeping bout of ear pain, but I'd still say call your doctor.

Hmm. So it could be Random Oozy Ick, along with a stuffy ear.

Either way, it ain't normal, so I guess it's the doctor for me.

ION, if you are eating leftover (or fresh) chili, and you ran out of cheese and oyster crackers, I gotta say that cheese crackers are a fabulous substitute.

I need to win the lottery today so that we can stay at the beach forever.

t OK cupid rant

One extreme close up picture is ok. But if you do that, you really should have other pictures that show more than your cheeks/eyes/smile. You doing something other than sitting at your webcam. 5 pictures of various faces from the same "photo session" at same webcam, all XCU's is a really stupid idea, and made of fail.

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I fear I am too picky, and will be alone forever

While Margaret isn't such a common name anymore, it's still not so unusual that you might not expect a little overlap. You know what? You love the name, you've loved it a long time, so when the time comes, you use it and love it and cherish the special little girl it will belong to, who'll make it her own as much as Emeline is the Emeline.

Barb is wise. Plus, if the "air-quotes friend" is just doing this to fuck with you, the best thing to do is to refuse to be fucked with. You name your kid(s) whatever you and Joe darn well please. And if your Maggie is likely to be around their Maggie much, such that confusion happens, well, you have a couple of options. First, you could give your girl a middle name that would work well said aloud with the Maggie (ex., just to fuck with DJ Lucy, which yields Maggie Lu) then slyly teach her to refer to their daughter as "Just Plain Maggie". Alternatively, just keep calling her Maggie, and steadfastly refer to their girl as "The Other Maggie". t /is slightly evil

Teppy, I hope whatever the heck is going on with your ear clears up soon.

Shir, you've got the best of my ~ma.

I'll agree with the crowd that it probably she probably didn't intentionally steal the name, Aims, but if you want I can still make snide remarks about baby weight behind her back with you.

I'd love that!! I'm mostly over it now.

Now there's new drama with another friend. Ah, my life. It's actually kind of funny and the person is being a total jerk. We had a baby shower and "tupperware" party for a friend last night. One of the women invited wanted to bring her 5 month old - GoH said fine, but this woman has been posting all over FB this past week about how her, her baby, her 9 year old, and her husband have been sick - hacking, fever, coughing, snotty noses. GoH said, "I really don't want to be sick. Please don't come." Woman Freaked Out all over FB. Calling us an adult clique, saying to GoH, "You'll be less paranoid with the second one" and other bullshit.

How ridic she is being.

I don't think asking them not to come is ridiculous. Freaked out woman is being ridiculous on FB. Seriously, if your family is sick, the right thing to do is send regrets.

That's totally what I meant. I am firmly in the camp of, "Please do not expose our 33 weeks pregnant friend to your germs." The sick friend should have totally backed out voluntarily and then not been an a-hole when asked not to come.

I've gotten the same thing for not wanting to visit friends if I think they might be contagious. I admit that I once was a hypochondriac, but I still think "I caught a cold yesterday, but you can still come," is the least-sexy invite ever, and declined politely. I can't believe anyone would be hurt by this, but she was.