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Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Oct 01, 2009 6:13:20 am PDT #24841 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

You know, you say that, but I've always joked that I'm sort of bipolar and last night I was wondering whether there's actually something wrong with me.

Sorry, I should have clarified - that wasn't a joke. I have bipolar disorder (type II). As Cashmere says, it's a milder form of the condition (never feels very mild, of course...!)

P-C, if it's interfering with your life, or your ability to enjoy your life, talk to someone.

I would agree with this. My symptoms used to distress me (and others) a whole lot, so I got help for them. These days I'm at a sort of 'maintenance' level, where they don't worry me so much because things don't get so extreme. I had to do a lot of work to get here, though. I'm still crazy, but I have many coping strategies these days. Including a wonderful Girl who makes phone calls for me, when I am having meltdowns of various sorts. Even if she has to make those phone calls from Israel.

P-C, do you know things that help? For example, I know being around people can make me crazy, so I try not to be, if I start getting stressed. Some people find it helpful to make sure they get enough daylight, as Fred Pete says (I have a daylight lamp by my bed which helps with that). Other people find that eating better makes a difference.

Talking of my wonderful Girl, she just broke a massive family taboo and told her grandmother that she's a dirty lesbian*. She has been banned from doing this since she told her parents, many years ago, but she decided she wants her grandma at our wedding. Turns out her grandma already knew, and is being lovely about it. It's as sweet as when my mother blurted it out to my grandmother, and the next day the two of us were invited to my grandmother's for Sunday lunch.

*OK, probably she used less scary words.


Cashmere - Oct 01, 2009 6:14:36 am PDT #24842 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Mania can also be characterized by sleeping little and sometimes getting a WHOLE LOT done. Like, staying up all night to clean your house, or something.

Or baking. Not that I've ever done that. Ummm....


brenda m - Oct 01, 2009 6:14:39 am PDT #24843 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Aw. Yay for grandmothers.


Connie Neil - Oct 01, 2009 6:15:19 am PDT #24844 of 30000
brillig

I've begun to wonder if any sort of behavior that leans toward either side of staid is considered part of a syndrome. Sure, the extremes are worrisome and anything that interferes with normal functioning should be dealt with, but the mild ones seem to be the natural effects of a passionate life.

I sometimes wonder if drug companies sit around coming up with things to sell drugs for. "Hm, knobby toes, do we have anything that we can sell to treat knobby toes?"


sj - Oct 01, 2009 6:16:05 am PDT #24845 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I haven't noticed the seasonal affective this year yet. I usually get it pretty badly, which is a shame because I love Autumn. Maybe it's because we hardly had any sun this summer. If so, that's fine with me.


Stephanie - Oct 01, 2009 6:16:27 am PDT #24846 of 30000
Trust my rage

Okay, no more buffista children are allowed to fracture anything. (Seriously, I hope Abby's okay and feeling better.)


Barb - Oct 01, 2009 6:17:57 am PDT #24847 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Aw, Seska, yay for grandmas who are more with it than we give them credit for!

And because it made me happy and I hope it makes my Bitches struggling with the moods a little happy, some Muppet Therapy.

The Ode to joy

Habañera


billytea - Oct 01, 2009 6:19:02 am PDT #24848 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Okay, no more buffista children are allowed to fracture anything. (Seriously, I hope Abby's okay and feeling better.)

If you could stop them peeing on themselves too, that would be lovely.


Connie Neil - Oct 01, 2009 6:19:53 am PDT #24849 of 30000
brillig

If you could stop them peeing on themselves too, that would be lovely.

They'll just pee on you.


Jessica - Oct 01, 2009 6:19:54 am PDT #24850 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

If you could stop them peeing on themselves too, that would be lovely.

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