It's a beautiful day out... and I can't see to get myself off the couch. What is up? Stupid tyranny of good weather.
I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?
Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Nora Deirdre - Sep 26, 2009 11:01:38 am PDT #24466 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Shir - Sep 26, 2009 11:59:21 am PDT #24467 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
And the plot thickens.
I already told my awesome roommates 3 weeks ago I'm going. Another girl saw the flat and decided it was good, and because she went abroad she said a fast "yes" and went away (she said "yes" about two days before she went away).
She didn't sign anything, but I feel like I'm kicking her out. Which I am.
I'm looking for apartments myself at the moment. Tomorrow, until Yom Kippur will enter, I'll try to solve this mess.
I just hate it when my mess affects others. I really feel shitty about it, and moving everyone's plans because this moving is do damn ridiculous.
Screw you, plot.
Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Sep 26, 2009 12:17:15 pm PDT #24468 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"
Ugh. That's irritating as hell. I hope you find somewhere quickly, Shir, or that you get to stay where you are.
Connie Neil - Sep 26, 2009 12:43:01 pm PDT #24469 of 30000
brillig
I keep trying to remember what it was like when Hubby and I got together, and I don't remember doing much work. I think this comes from Hubby's obsessive-compulsive nature combined with a caveman instinct of "Woman! Want!". Luckily this intersected with my agreeableness to being wanted and liking his brains. It sounds both shameless and smug, but I've never tried to build a connection with a stranger, just let friends become friends with benefits. Which is probably laziness on my behalf.
I'm a very lucky woman. And I just found myself gazing on my husband's bare foot and admiring the curves. I suppose I should keep him. Because the idea of trying to meet someone new is horrifying.
Shir - Sep 26, 2009 12:56:27 pm PDT #24470 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
I've never tried to build a connection with a stranger, just let friends become friends with benefits. Which is probably laziness on my behalf.
Because the idea of trying to meet someone new is horrifying.
I think you reached the conclusion of why this isn't laziness by yourself. More like self preservation, IMHO.
Honestly, a not-so-small part of me thinks stranger who are trying to hit on me are crazy, perhaps partly suicidal. There's no way I'll know you're sane in 5 or 50 minutes, pal, and vice versa. And the mind thing, the thing that takes a while to discover, is my biggest turn on. Can't tell it by a first minute impression, even if you look good and smell nice.
sj - Sep 26, 2009 1:16:29 pm PDT #24471 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I highly recommend getting set up by a friend that knows you well and just sort of falling into a ltr with that person without really trying. That's what worked for me.
Polter-Cow - Sep 26, 2009 1:17:12 pm PDT #24472 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
I've never tried to build a connection with a stranger, just let friends become friends with benefits. Which is probably laziness on my behalf.
That's how I've been for the most part. All of my...romantic encounters have been friends.
I highly recommend getting set up by a friend that knows you well and just sort of falling into a ltr with that person without really trying. That's what worked for me.
Ha. Last night, someone on my flist sent me the e-mail of a geeky Desi girl in New York.
Hil R. - Sep 26, 2009 1:30:51 pm PDT #24473 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
For some reason, I got sucked into watching Britain's Got Talent clips on YouTube. These kids are just ridiculously fun: [link]
Dana - Sep 26, 2009 1:39:38 pm PDT #24474 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
Coincidentally, I am looking up recipes for beef stew right now.
WindSparrow - Sep 26, 2009 1:46:33 pm PDT #24475 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
These kids are just ridiculously fun: [link]
Ded. Ded, I say. The. Cutest. Kid. Act. Evar. I am utterly slain by their lethal cuteness.