Hmm. Am I an idiot for getting annoyed at someone who criticises my campaign group's tactics and approach, while sitting on her behind and doing nothing about the situation herself? If you have a better approach, surely you should do something about it. You shouldn't complain that a group 'has no class' and that you don't feel represented by them. Especially when the issue is the death of disabled people as as result of the removal of/massive cuts to care services. To my mind, it's quite selfish to stamp your feet and say 'but that doesn't represent my situation - I'm fine - therefore your group should be representing me me me' when your fellow disabled people are actually dying.

Rant over. Thank you for listening.

I need food and we have none. Online takeout ordering, I think...

Oh, I know all of this. I just can't believe she was asking me. The exchange went something like this:

Mom: Okay. How much can you write about a person without getting in legal trouble?

Me: Nothing. Don't do it. It's called libel. Seriously, I don't care what it is or how true it is or how much you feel justified because the person in question is utter crap and deserves to be dragged through the mud, DON'T DO IT. Moreoever, don't ask me to do it, because I won't. You know why? Because I. Don't. Care.

Huh. I just realized that I've got a totally crazy weekend coming up. Friday night - Rosh Hashanah services. Saturday day - KBD's mom, sis, and neicephews are coming over. Saturday night - out with my family for my birthday. Sunday - C-boro music festival - free, around 30 stages, starts around noon and goes into the night. I think my parents might be coming to that, too.

Oy. My birthday is next Monday, and I am *definitely* taking the day off.

Seska - I'd be pissed if I were you.

Barb - sounds like the best answer you could have given. I hope she listens.

Me: Nothing. Don't do it. It's called libel. Seriously, I don't care

I admire your restraint. Heck, I'd admire your restraint if you'd gone with "I'll drag you to the highest court in the land, Mom."

I feel you Barb. I had to have a come to Jesus meeting with my mother about how I wasn't a lawyer anymore so she had to stop a) asking me for legal advice and b) getting mad at me when I couldn't/wouldn't provide it. (i.e. writing her will, which I cannot give because I am a beneficiary)

eta: I'm happy to work with regular people about legal stuff, but my mother didn't know where to draw the line.

Seska, don't have much to offer, but BTDT.

erika - Cheers. Good to know it's not just me. I think the reason I was so annoyed was that I am massively invested in the group's current campaigns for better care services, and it's a crucial time as the government is planning to cut more and more types of care support. And I know that it's not an issue that affects every disabled person. I, for example, am lucky enough to have an awesome, strong-willed, fairly comfortably-off partner who will ensure I never go without the services I need. That's not the point. I don't do these things for myself. Surely that's what campaigning for civil and human rights is all about...?!

But I really will stop ranting now. I'm having a nice glass of wine to help calm down. It is very good.

Seska, totally not just you. I can't tell you how many times in work situations I've had to basically say, "Please come with ideas to the next meeting as I don't want to continue having the same bitchfest over and over and over." Annoying.

Of course.Every fight is not just about getting yours...in my case that includes fighting for minimum wage increases and against discrimination of gay people(although I'm not quite as straight as I thought when I came here.) Although in some ways my disability awareness expanding has made me more liberal since I know what a gas poverty is, and also what a headfuck it is when you think the institutions of your nation are backing you up, only to come out of school and find the American Dream almost completely inaccessible...the most conservative thing they could have done would be to give me a challenging day job. Honest. I would have stayed out of politics and into shopping and safe Tipper Gore lite-Dem complacency. Now, I wonder if I *am* unemployable, if not for the reasons They think. I think maybe I shouldn't have been so scornful about that Wal-Mart job...I'd fuckin' dare the goons of Bentonville to mess with me more than God already has. How would that look? I will not join you in wine as it's 9:30 AM here, and that might make for a short day for a lightweight like me