{{{Shir}}} And I'm just going to point to what Ginger said and nod, nod, nod. She is very, very wise.
My family is all sturdy peasant stock; I come from long lines of shepherds and goatherds. Nobody of worldly note at all until we came to the US. One branch of my grandfather's family moved to Chicago and became vaudevillians, the most famous of whom married the man who wrote "Take Me Out To The Ballgame" and co-wrote "Shine On, Harvest Moon" with him. She used to drop by my grandfather's childhood home in Oakland for family meals when the Ziegfeld Follies were touring the Bay Area.
Also, my grandfather and a friend, one glorious day when they were ten, cut school, sneaked onto the ferry to San Francisco, and went to see Harry Houdini. And my grandfather was chosen to come up on stage and tug on his chains to prove they were real. He had such a pure love of storytelling and an innocent lust for bragging about his own awesome exploits, it must have absolutely killed him to go home that night and pretend he'd just had an ordinary day at school.