It's simple. I slap 'em around a bit, torture 'em, make their lives hell...Sure, the nice guys'll run away,but every now and then you'll find a prince like Spike who gets off on it.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Stephanie - Sep 04, 2009 3:45:17 am PDT #21853 of 30000
Trust my rage

Daniel, I told Ellie about the giant gummi bear and she loved it. She likes those thngs on ice cream, which Is all yuck to me, but kids love weird stuff

ION, Joe and I ran into the daughter of one of joes best friends while getting ice cream. We last saw them when we lived here five years ago. She recognized Joe but we didn't recognize her. She's now 18, pregnant, didn't graduate, and has been on and off meth since 14. So sad and scared the crap out of me. Her dad says his deployment started it which scared me even more.


DCJensen - Sep 04, 2009 3:57:52 am PDT #21854 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.

Stephanie, that's awful.


tommyrot - Sep 04, 2009 4:28:24 am PDT #21855 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Five-pound gummy bears: [link]

Cool. I'll have to bookmark that site in case I need a date for an event....


Fred Pete - Sep 04, 2009 4:34:26 am PDT #21856 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.

Have a great trip, Calli!


Lee - Sep 04, 2009 4:50:44 am PDT #21857 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Have a great time, Calli!


Vortex - Sep 04, 2009 5:22:26 am PDT #21858 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Okay, so OK Cupid sent me a match. He mentions sci fi and fandom, so I think cool. He's Irish, fun. He says "if you're interested in making Star Trek films, I'd love to meet you" which raised an eyebrow, and then one of his profile pics was him in a homemade Trek uniform (of course, what does it say about me that I immediately recognize it as homemade because the emblem's not Federation). Too geeky?

Oh, another issue is that I can't see how tall he is. Call me heightist, but if you're shorter than six feet, you gotta wow me.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Sep 04, 2009 5:33:46 am PDT #21859 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

I am on holiday. It is about ninety degrees. I am sitting at the bar near the pool and have just finished Stephen Fry's novel 'Making History'. There is no bad here.

Ryan pics! He is utterly adorable.

Vortext - he sounds interesting. Online stuff often starts off a bit weird. With The Girl, who I met on an online dating/networking thingy, I had several "oh crap, she's [insert thing I find tricky here]" moments before deciding just to go for it and meet her. It appears to be working out well. Our children will be confused on many, many levels, but we mostly just shout at each other until I win, then go out for breakfast. We always agree about breakfast.


sj - Sep 04, 2009 5:41:27 am PDT #21860 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Calli, have a great trip!


Gudanov - Sep 04, 2009 5:47:47 am PDT #21861 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Call me heightist, but if you're shorter than six feet, you gotta wow me.

Hey, he has his own Star Trek uniform.


Vortex - Sep 04, 2009 5:49:41 am PDT #21862 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Today is wacky day on OKC. Turns out Star Trek guy is 5'9", so no. Had a match with another guy who was 6'2 and athletic (red flag! not that being athletic is inherently bad, but it tends to conflict with my love of lying on the couch and watching the Food Network) If you're not familiar with OKC, there are questions that you can have your match answer. The questions that you pick are as telling as what the other person answers. First question - would you consider contacting two people online for a threesome. Second question - in sex, would you prefer tying up or being tied up. Third question -- in sex, do you prefer to be the one giving or receiving pain.

Now, I don't think that there's anything wrong with threesomes, bondage or s&m, but I kinda think that you might want to actually meet the person before broaching this kind of thing. OTOH, if that's what you're in to, it might be good to weed out the naysayers right away.