Early: Where'd she go? Simon: I can't keep track of her when she's not incorporeally possessing a space ship. Don't look at me.

'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Ginger - Aug 27, 2009 2:00:31 pm PDT #21021 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Although with my religious company, it tends to be the awkward little dance while we figure out which brand of religious everyone is, and if they expect to drink or not.

"What's the difference between a Baptist and a Methodist?"

"A Methodist will speak to you if you run into him at the liquor store."

The "let's just split it" thing can be really irritating. I'm fine with roughly equal; I get pretty testy when it's a fairly large table and a couple of people say "Let's get appetizers! Let's get bottles of wine!" Then, after I've had one or two beers and none of the wine, they say, "Let's just split the bill."


omnis_audis - Aug 27, 2009 2:22:41 pm PDT #21022 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

There was actually a whole Friends episode about this very thing
Ha! I was thinking the same thing.


meara - Aug 27, 2009 2:57:23 pm PDT #21023 of 30000

Yeah, oft times especially in high tax cooed people forget how much to add. Hil, I always said 30% in a big group in dc, especially to be on the safe side and because people are bad atath and cause I tip twenty.

Also I have a wrist tattoo, but it's not super noticeable, i can wear long sleeves or a bracelet. Which doesn't work as well for boys, I think.


Jessica - Aug 27, 2009 3:00:28 pm PDT #21024 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

However, if you do this, make sure you actually pay for everything you ordered, plus tax, plus tip.

Yes, this. I had a friend in college who would never put in for tip (partially on the excuse that he hadn't ordered as much as the rest of us and partially because he didn't believe in tipping). Wound up costing the rest of us a fortune over the years because no matter what he ordered we'd always have to chip in extra to cover him.


sj - Aug 27, 2009 3:12:11 pm PDT #21025 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I had a friend who never added in tax while figuring out what she owed. It was a weekly thing, so it added up and it bugged.


Strix - Aug 27, 2009 3:38:51 pm PDT #21026 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Luckily, I am close enough friends that people are pretty up front about being all "I've got $25 buck -- I bought this and here's my tip." We have one friend who's a cheapskate, but we've been buying dinners for 15 years, so we know that we're going to have to tell him "You have to chip in more than that." And his wife knows he's cheap, and will even out the bill.

If you're offering to buy dinner, only make the offer to people who know won't soak you on it. Otherwise, I'd say offer to take them out for drinks instead. Or, with friends and family, say "Let's get some dinner. My treat, as long as we keep it under $x."

When people buy me dinner, I make it a point to ask them "Do you mind if I have a drink?" and I try to keep it reasonable. And I let them order first, to see what they're doing and try to follow their lead.

My tats don't show at a job interview, but you can see them in most tanks tops or some tees with a looser neck cut. I'm a teacher in MO, and I'll occasionally get a look or a comment, but the students think it's cool. Many of my co-workers have tats.

I want a wrist tat, but it would be very small, and I would get it placed so that I could wear a bracelet or watch over it in an interview.


sj - Aug 27, 2009 3:50:33 pm PDT #21027 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm bored. TCG has one of his late meetings tonight, and I think I have reached the end of the internet.


smonster - Aug 27, 2009 4:11:39 pm PDT #21028 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hey, sj. I'm waiting for my iTunes to update so I can sync my iPhone.

I have lots to watch on the DVR, though, so I should probably do that.

Amyth is in the process of moving out and I'm a little sad, though I will still see her almost every day.


sj - Aug 27, 2009 4:14:54 pm PDT #21029 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

smonster! Hi!

I only have one hour of tv left on the DVR that isn't something I should save to watch with TCG. I'm watching it now because the baseball game is going badly.


Hil R. - Aug 27, 2009 4:17:26 pm PDT #21030 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I just got a dehydrator, and I'm dehydrating strawberries. Which actually isn't really me doing anything, since I just washed and sliced them and put them on the tray and turned it on, and they'll be ready in the morning.