Giles: Helping out with the dishes makes me feel useful. Dawn: Wanna clean out the garage with us Saturday? You could feel indispensable.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


amych - Feb 05, 2009 11:41:48 am PST #5186 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Ginsburg is sad judiciary news. Will be hoping for the best possible recovery because I <3 her so.

Happier judiciary news: 9th Circuit smackdown of DOMA over unequal benefits to fed employees W00t!


§ ita § - Feb 05, 2009 11:43:23 am PST #5187 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I knew someone once who had hit one while driving through the local forest preserve on the way home from work and his old Corolla was completely totalled.

At one of my accounts in Michigan a woman died shortly after I started there--her husband was driving and hit a deer. Its hind legs went through the windshield and it kicked her to death trying to escape.


SuziQ - Feb 05, 2009 11:44:22 am PST #5188 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I also look at the money they paid toward my degree over the last 2 and a half years as a nice "bonus," so no hard feelings here.

Yes, very much this (over all 4 years), plus the help with relocation from CA to CO. They didn't pay a lot, but every bit helps.


Kathy A - Feb 05, 2009 11:45:43 am PST #5189 of 30000
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

One of the departments I've worked in here has dealt with Justice Ginsburg's husband as an outside author. It was before my time there, but the editor I worked with said he's an overall really nice guy. I hope everything goes well with her for both of their sakes, as well as the rest of their family and friends.


brenda m - Feb 05, 2009 11:47:06 am PST #5190 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Well, more "it could be a hell of a lot worse" news from work--they just announced that this year's raise pool is lowered from 3% to 2%, and if anyone deserves more than 2% raise this year, they'll have to go through a lot of hoops to get it.

Yeah, we've basically gone to a standard where you better have sunbeams coming out of your ass to even be eligible for a raise. (And if you make over 200k - not an issue for me - not even that.)

We had our quarterly earnings call yesterday and it was, yeah, not fun. Though we actually held steady with last year, and until Q4 were still showing pretty strong growth.

But yeah, anyone carping about raises right now in any position is really not grasping the real world, methinks.


flea - Feb 05, 2009 11:49:02 am PST #5191 of 30000
information libertarian

Yeah, we have been told no raises now, no raises next FY, and we have a hiring freeze unless the position is safety related.

A mid-year budget cut of 9% and next year anywhere from 6-10% will do that for you.


aurelia - Feb 05, 2009 11:53:37 am PST #5192 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

I got a call this morning asking to re-negotiate my contracts for both my salaried position and my design fee/budget for an upcoming show. Not good.


amych - Feb 05, 2009 11:53:39 am PST #5193 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

But yeah, anyone carping about raises right now in any position is really not grasping the real world, methinks.

Pretty much this. I know I've grumbled to myself when people in for-profit land get 10% and/or bonuses (where our standard is more like 2 or 3%)... Right now? I'm fully expecting 0, and damned happy to be in higher ed.


lisah - Feb 05, 2009 12:01:10 pm PST #5194 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

At one of my accounts in Michigan a woman died shortly after I started there--her husband was driving and hit a deer. Its hind legs went through the windshield and it kicked her to death trying to escape.

I am never driving outside the city again.


msbelle - Feb 05, 2009 12:03:09 pm PST #5195 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

People in the bank are still not happy about the very strong likelihood of no bonuses, because they budget for them, but yeah - things could be so much worse.