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Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


javachik - Jan 27, 2009 12:29:55 pm PST #3823 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Steph, you should absolutely NOT feel any sort of guilt for making that move and benefiting from it!


tommyrot - Jan 27, 2009 12:32:36 pm PST #3824 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

What's going on in Bush's mind here?

I dunno - it could be anything. Hard to tell from a single picture. But the picture does look like he just watched his dog die....

This long NYT retrospective on the seminal news-photos of some guy named George Bush during his presidency ends with photos of the man on his way to his farewell address, during which it appears that he's been crying in the bathroom. I've looked at it several times now and I'm not sure I agree that's what's going on -- this facial expression seems to contain a lot more than mere sorrow.

From the NYT:

And I turned to one of my editors — First I said, “Oh, my God.” And he said, “What?” And I said, “You’ve got to see this picture of Bush. This is really stunning.” And I flipped it over to him to process and his first reaction was, “Wow.” And I said, “If he wasn’t just back there behind that door crying, I don’t know what that look on his face is.” Because he just looks absolutely devastated as he comes through this door after essentially ending his eight year presidency. And it’s just really striking. He just looks absolutely devastated.


Steph L. - Jan 27, 2009 12:33:15 pm PST #3825 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Steph, you should absolutely NOT feel any sort of guilt for making that move and benefiting from it!

Well, it's just when I read news like yesterday's layoffs, I can't help thinking how freaking lucky I am -- which I know -- and having comparative good fortune when others are in horribly dire straits provokes guilt in me.

I was bred for guilt -- my mom could bottle and sell it to all the moms who aren't as good at it as she is.


Jesse - Jan 27, 2009 12:36:18 pm PST #3826 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Steph, that just means you should be spending money now, to help the economy.


§ ita § - Jan 27, 2009 12:39:08 pm PST #3827 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Okay, this job application wants me to upload a copy of my diploma. How much is that not going to happen? I've never seen my diploma. Why do they care?

One of the tennis announcers just said that it was his 20th anniversary and that his wife was too good for him. I completely cannot imagine that. I'm getting too old to have so little idea.


megan walker - Jan 27, 2009 12:40:24 pm PST #3828 of 30000
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

I assume SF incomes are proportional(ish) with rents? Because I read $1295 and actually thought, "For *only* one month?!?"

Mine's not. Between academia and publishing I sure know how to pick 'em. Once I move, about 1/2 my take home will go to rent + utilities and 1/4 goes to school loans.

I console myself with the fact that, were I to buy my current house with 20% down, the interest alone on the mortgage for the first year would be double my rent. So renting, even at these prices, is still way cheaper.

ETA: And, in happier housing news, congrats Suzi!!


Daisy Jane - Jan 27, 2009 12:40:54 pm PST #3829 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

What java said, Steph. As someone who is in the less fortunate position. Seeing people who are managing or even doing well provides a little bit of hope. So not only should you not feel guilty, you should also know that you are a little glimmer of light letting us know we will get through it.


Theodosia - Jan 27, 2009 12:50:30 pm PST #3830 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I suspect that some job applications are actually psychological studies to see just how far subjects will go in pursuit of a job. Be especially careful if they ask you to deliver near-lethal electric jolts to other applicants....


Pete, Husband of Jilli - Jan 27, 2009 12:52:59 pm PST #3831 of 30000
"I've got a gun! I've got a mother-flippin' gun!" - Moss, The IT Crowd

Discovered by an LJ friend over in Germany -

Car meets church.

Church roof, that is.


shrift - Jan 27, 2009 1:00:18 pm PST #3832 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Okay, this job application wants me to upload a copy of my diploma.

Dude, I didn't even have to do that for my job. Transcript, sure, but not actual diploma. Which I think is hanging on a wall back in Michigan.