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Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Jul 10, 2009 3:56:47 am PDT #28380 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Happy birthday, Sox and Dillo.

Dilemma: the chair of my grad program pointed out that I need a new thesis advisor. She recommended Dr. H, a professor I had quite some time ago but said Dr. H is most likely not going to be able to do it because of time constraints. She offered to do it herself.

If Dr. K does it herself, it means she's going to expect me to communicate and be top notch and to GET THINGS DONE in a timely manner and there will be a lot of back and forth, with negotiating. But my thesis will be ready for defense, no question about it.

Dr. H will not require I work that hard but she also won't be able or willing to provide the same support. I dunno how much support I might need.

Dr. K already sits on the defense committees though, so that might be nice.

Hmmm... who to ask?


Kat - Jul 10, 2009 4:00:43 am PDT #28381 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Fluevog is having a big sale today, fyi! [link]


flea - Jul 10, 2009 4:15:47 am PDT #28382 of 30000
information libertarian

I would go with Dr. K. Firmess in an advisor is a good thing, even if the work is "harder" you have GUIDANCE.


Lee - Jul 10, 2009 4:20:07 am PDT #28383 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Fluevog is having a big sale today, fyi!

I was just coming in to say that I got an email saying John Fluevog thinks I'm awesome.

I like those kinds of emails.


Sue - Jul 10, 2009 4:20:54 am PDT #28384 of 30000
hip deep in pie

So far today at work, I have chatted with my co-workers about our various aches and pains, tried to trap and release a spider and then discussed lunch plans. I should look into some work.


Cashmere - Jul 10, 2009 4:22:47 am PDT #28385 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

I'm steadfastly ignoring the Fluevog sale. *sigh* So pretty.

I'd go with more guidance, Kat.


Laura - Jul 10, 2009 4:25:04 am PDT #28386 of 30000
This too shall pass.

Happy Birthday, Sox!

It sounds like asking Dr. K. would provide support and success. Perhaps more stress in the short run, but payoff.

I should do some work.


Sue - Jul 10, 2009 4:35:47 am PDT #28387 of 30000
hip deep in pie

Oh Kat, I so understand that dilemma. My lazy nature would draw me towards the easier advisor, but you know that the hard ass will benefit you more. Also, every time I've had a totally demanding perfectionist teacher, they've ended up being my favourite because they brought out the best in me, and got me to do something that I wouldn't have achieved on my own. Also, I hope I've learned a little bit about discipline and work ethic from them.


msbelle - Jul 10, 2009 4:39:00 am PDT #28388 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

today can fuck off.


Kat - Jul 10, 2009 4:41:05 am PDT #28389 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

oh no. msbelle, what happened?