Spike: I'm not a monster. Xander: Yes! You are a monster. Vampires are monsters! They make monster movies about them! Spike: Well, yeah. Got me there.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


erikaj - Jun 11, 2009 8:18:25 pm PDT #23882 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Yeah, I think everything is where it should be. It's just wired like a Fiat. That's probably true, Hec.(I over-simplified a bunch, but I hope it's clear that I'm not trying to drink the haterade or anything...whatever he needs to do to feel okay is probably fine with me.) It's just that, contrary to what the sitcoms show, I didn't have anyone to ask about this in my graduating class.


P.M. Marc - Jun 11, 2009 8:34:11 pm PDT #23883 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I think it's sometimes easier if you've hung out with trans men and women to have it make sense? I have a hard time explaining it, like meara does, but they just are who they are, and when you meet them/hang with them, it clicks. I know trans and otherwise non-cisgendered people who were born female who date women, some who date men, some who are fluid. I know trans and otherwise non-cisgendered people who were born men, and same thing. Some dated one gender before transition, and another after. We humans are complex!


DavidS - Jun 11, 2009 8:41:18 pm PDT #23884 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

ION, the baseball draft concluded but not without another gem of a baseball name: Dexter Bobo.

You can't make this shit up! (cf., Coco Crisp, Dusty Napoleon, Dante Love, Sequoyah Stonecipher and Damien Magnifico.)


beth b - Jun 11, 2009 9:51:31 pm PDT #23885 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Glad you asked, erika. I don't have any problems accepting things like Chasity knowing he is Chav -- because coming to that conclusion - in the face of all the cultural issues is not easy. However, acceptance isn't the same as understanding, and any information helps


Jesse - Jun 12, 2009 2:55:07 am PDT #23886 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

And I have used a ton of words to say: Transexuals...huh. I don't get it

There was a great piece on This American Life by a trans guy, that included stuff about transition, and passing, and etc., as well as his realization that he had gone from being a really cool tough butch girl to being kind of a lame guy. Which was funny. It should be on their website.


Theodosia - Jun 12, 2009 3:20:57 am PDT #23887 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

TAL also had a heartbreaking piece about two child transgenders meeting each other for the first time and becoming BFFs.


flea - Jun 12, 2009 3:41:05 am PDT #23888 of 30000
information libertarian

This is the TAL with the interview with Griffin Hansbury, the trans guy. [link] I knew him in college. It's a pretty good show.


Hil R. - Jun 12, 2009 3:45:40 am PDT #23889 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

You can't make this shit up! (cf., Coco Crisp, Dusty Napoleon, Dante Love, Sequoyah Stonecipher and Damien Magnifico.)

Wilbur Huckle!


Barb - Jun 12, 2009 3:46:01 am PDT #23890 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

You can't make this shit up! (cf., Coco Crisp, Dusty Napoleon, Dante Love, Sequoyah Stonecipher and Damien Magnifico.)

One of my favorite baseball names is Kiko Calero.


Jesse - Jun 12, 2009 4:21:05 am PDT #23891 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

TAL also had a heartbreaking piece about two child transgenders meeting each other for the first time and becoming BFFs.

Oh yeah, that was so sweet.