A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Hil R. - Jun 05, 2009 5:36:27 pm PDT #23001 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

We need actual definitions for these things, you know? Are there any? I'd give a single person with that salary even in NYC a little more of a bump than upper middle class.

True. I wasn't really considering that she's single with no kids. But on the other hand, does age matter? Like, would a 25-year-old and a 50-year-old with the same salary be the same "class"? For some reason, it seems to me like the older person would be a lower class than the younger person, but I really can't explain why. I need to think about this more.


Trudy Booth - Jun 05, 2009 5:42:27 pm PDT #23002 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Well, the older person with the same salary may not have the same earning potential. That probably counts for something.


Hil R. - Jun 05, 2009 5:51:12 pm PDT #23003 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I think I'd consider "upper-middle class" to be somewhere that it's possible to get to with a standard white-collar job, like working your way up as a lawyer or doctor or something, and "rich" would be something that requires more than that -- either inherited money or getting way to the top of a corporation or something.

I'm not sure where I'd put the numbers, but in terms of stuff, I'd say small vacation house on the Jersey Shore is upper-middle, big vacation house in the Hamptons is rich; apartment just big enough to comfortably house your family, but no bigger, is upper-middle, apartment with extra rooms is rich; once a week maid is upper-middle, live-in nanny is rich. (All this for people living in Manhattan. Outer boroughs or suburbs have totally different gauges.)


Jesse - Jun 05, 2009 5:55:16 pm PDT #23004 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I would hope that a high-level successful professional would make the kind of money to make them (at least) upper middle class, even in public service. And I would hope that a Supreme Court Justice would be a high-level successful professional. Much like I hope they would be smarter than me.

Anyway. I already had my major event of the weekend, spending the day out in the suburbs with a friend, her hilarious toddler, and delightful husband.


javachik - Jun 05, 2009 5:58:02 pm PDT #23005 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Non-rich is working for your money.

Rich is when your money works for you.

Sotomayor is no where close to rich.


Lee - Jun 05, 2009 5:59:30 pm PDT #23006 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I think, before everything went to hell, first year associates in large firms were starting at about $120,000.

Actually, that seems on the low side, at least around here.

New Kitteh is home! Her name so far is Sophie. There has been no vomiting.


javachik - Jun 05, 2009 6:00:29 pm PDT #23007 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yay, Perkins and Sophie. I hope the evening goes smoothly. Does she remember you??


javachik - Jun 05, 2009 6:02:38 pm PDT #23008 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Barbara's Peanut Butter Puffins:

I am so psyched for Suzi! She's at the A's game tonight (and crashing at my place after) and the A's are up 6 to nothing in the 3rd!!!


Trudy Booth - Jun 05, 2009 6:03:38 pm PDT #23009 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I'm not sure where I'd put the numbers, but in terms of stuff, I'd say small vacation house on the Jersey Shore is upper-middle, big vacation house in the Hamptons is rich; apartment just big enough to comfortably house your family, but no bigger, is upper-middle, apartment with extra rooms is rich; once a week maid is upper-middle, live-in nanny is rich. (All this for people living in Manhattan. Outer boroughs or suburbs have totally different gauges.)

I think if you can maintain more than one home you're more like rich than middle class. Particularly if you live in a pricey area. A little shore house is a fair bit of change spent recreationally.

Of course, I'm leaving room for "wealthy" above rich -- that's where I'd think we're talking multi-generational money.


lisah - Jun 05, 2009 6:05:22 pm PDT #23010 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

I would hope that a high-level successful professional would make the kind of money to make them (at least) upper middle class, even in public service. And I would hope that a Supreme Court Justice would be a high-level successful professional. Much like I hope they would be smarter than me.

Yes, exactly what I was wanted to say but I'm wayyyyy less smart than a Supreme Court Justice should be tonight.