No one asks me why I'm not married. I guess I have a single sort of face. Or attitude.

No one asks me either. Not sure why not.

Work people have assumed I am married, but rarely ask; I find out in random office gossip. I wonder if it is because I have rings on both ring fingers, though they are definitely not traditional wedding rings. Or maybe just because I do tend to keep most of my personal life personal outside of a very few, and few cross that boundary.

In "I'm a complete hypocrite" news, I do wonder about one coworker, in terms of what her experience must be like compared to mine. She's probably older than me by a decade, a pretty conservative in terms of practice jew, and lives in the same building as her mom and takes care of her. Knowing her religious/social culture only as she's described it, I wonder about the kind of pressures she's gotten from family and the community.

I don't get a lot of asking, but I know a lot of people assume I'm gay. They especially did when my best friend was dating another woman, and I was therefore hanging out with a lot of lesbians.

In other complete hypocrite news, I was recently friended on Facebook by the guy that in university we referred to as a "sexual enigma." Women were always throwing themselves at him, and he never took any of them up on it, nor did he seem too interested in guys. (Sadly, I had a friend who wrote to him on the eve of her wedding to another man and said, "I've always loved you, I'm yours for the asking." and he never responded to her.) I was so excited to find out he was married and had a child, I called my friends, and was all, "[Sexual enigma] is married!!! to a woman!!!"

On the other hand, I've always had good looking male friends. Why hasn't that counted for anything?

single women run in my family. My maternal grandmother had 2 older sisters who never married, my dad had a sister who never married and I am one of the three oldest sisters in my family and none of us are married. I, at least, did date and had relationships. I'm not sure my sisters can say the same.

Want a pretend ex-fiance that you caught in bed with another man?

HA! I definitely think that qualifies for "It's complicated."

I'm marvelling at the presidency reaching out into the internet. And it not being a bassackwards thing, I mean, I KNOW, but still. If you go to [link] and sign up, they have that weird lettering thing authentication. With sound and stuff if you can't see the text. I mean, goddamn. My company, whose job it is to provide those services EVEN TO THE GOV'T, can't manage it for its employees, and I usually expect gov't to be even below that.

Of course, proof is in what it delivers. And it reaches those not on the internet. But damn.

I hope the weather and traffic aren't shit and I can make it down there monday.

I've always had good looking male friends. Why hasn't that counted for anything?

Were they gay?

single women run in my family

Hee.

Were they gay?

Mostly straight.

"[Sexual enigma] is married!!! to a woman!!!"

Ha!

On the other hand, I've always had good looking male friends. Why hasn't that counted for anything?

Were you having sex with them? Then it doesn't count.