Murk: But you're a God! The Sacred Glorificus! Glory: I'm a God in exile. Far from the Hellfires of Home and sharing my body with an enemy that stabs my boys in their fleshy little stomachs!

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Gudanov - Mar 11, 2009 10:25:10 am PDT #10152 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

And yet she's the hero of the "family values" crowd.

I wonder how much the "family values" image led to the engagement in the first place. I really feel sorry for Bristol, I imagine that having your pregnancy put on the national stage has to be the worst nightmare for a teenage mom.


Dana - Mar 11, 2009 10:25:25 am PDT #10153 of 30000
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Things what are bad: work.

Things what are OM NOM NOM: gyoza and egg rolls.


meara - Mar 11, 2009 10:26:50 am PDT #10154 of 30000

Wow, Sophia, someone really likes...wood.


Emily - Mar 11, 2009 10:28:25 am PDT #10155 of 30000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I've got a bit of a philosophical question regarding G&T programs. Disclaimer: I was in them, I loved them, I would put my kid in one if I had one and it qualified.

As I understand it, the research on tracking (that is, grouping kids with others of similar achievement levels) says that it raises scores for the high achievers but lowers them for the low achievers (and the middles... I can't remember). I'd love to think that having low achieving students together would let us focus more resources on them and give them more opportunities for success, but god knows that's not how it's turned out in the classes I've been in. So... what's the right thing to do?

Remember to read my disclaimer above -- not only did I perform better, but was (more importantly, at least to my family) less miserably unhappy, which I think is reason enough to do it. But it's something I grapple with in terms of fairness.


Trudy Booth - Mar 11, 2009 10:29:23 am PDT #10156 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Most of the crummy rentals we lived in when I was a kid had wood paneling -- you don't have to paint it between tenants.


brenda m - Mar 11, 2009 10:31:07 am PDT #10157 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I wonder how much the "family values" image led to the engagement in the first place. I really feel sorry for Bristol, I imagine that having your pregnancy put on the national stage has to be the worst nightmare for a teenage mom.

Totally. If they had won (god forbid) I bet we'd have seen a shotgun wedding. So there's another thing to thank Obama for.


Jesse - Mar 11, 2009 10:31:42 am PDT #10158 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I really feel sorry for Bristol, I imagine that having your pregnancy put on the national stage has to be the worst nightmare for a teenage mom.

God, yes.


Strix - Mar 11, 2009 10:32:39 am PDT #10159 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Erin, you were drinking Gin & Tonics in the 5th grade?

Dude, it was the early 80's! Wasn't EVERYONE?

I also dipped into my mom's makeup stash after she left for work every morning, and went to school with a shitton of pearlescent white and navy blue eyeshadow spackled to my lids, and a nice mature coppery brown lipstick. I was 10. My lovely fifth grade teacher asked me if my mom knew I was wearing makeup so early, and I was all "We apply it TOGETHER! I am VERY MATURE for my age!"

There was a phone call. Needless to say, I was VERY IMMATURE in some ways for my age, vice versa in others, and my mom and dad had just split up and we moved from the country to the city...and to the "rich" school in the city, and we were NOT at all rich.

ISSUES!!


javachik - Mar 11, 2009 10:34:58 am PDT #10160 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Emily, it's same problem, philosophically anyway, that we face when the parents with means place their kids in private schools. All too often, great schools are great (at least partially) because of the active involvement of parents. And those are the same parents, generally, who are more likely going to place their kids in private schools. So the public schools are even more deprived.


Jesse - Mar 11, 2009 10:35:12 am PDT #10161 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

My grammar school (K-8) didn't have a gifted proram or anything, and there wasn't formal tracking until 7th grade. I was in some program at the Science Museum that happened when we had half-Wednesdays, but I think that's about it.

That said, I could have placed everyone in the groups we were put in for 7th/8th grade myself -- it's not like you didn't know who was smart or not.