Oh, at first it was confusing. Just the idea of computers was like — whoa! I'm eleven hundred years old! I had trouble adjusting to the idea of Lutherans.

Anya ,'Get It Done'


Goodbye and Good Riddance 2008: "...and the horse you rode in on."  

Every year we watch the Charlie Brown special, do the Snoopy dance, wish everybody a Merry Christmukkah, and thank our Secret Santas in the good riddance thread. Which is this one, in case you were wondering. Oh, and 2008? Don't think we've forgotten about you.


Theresa - Jan 01, 2009 9:13:16 pm PST #171 of 381
"What would it take to get your daughter to stop tweeting about this?"

The year 2009 is going to be a year of significant changes in my life. It is not a hope, a goal, or an aspiration, but a fact. Generally just as nature abhors a vacuum, I abhor change of any kind. It is not my experience that change makes me happy. Unsettled maybe, slightly anxious definitely, but happy? Rarely.

So I go into 2009 knowing these probabilities. I hesitate calling those certainties because they are neither death nor taxes. I am faced with the choice of dreading these changes or embracing the inevitable and seeing 2009 as an adventure. At the same time, I am reminded that fate can step in and in the words of John Lennon, “Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans”. I am choosing to embrace change and welcome it in 2009 in order to maintain some sense of control.

  • My father will turn 65 years old in February and I am reminded of his and my own mortality more than I wish to be
  • My son will turn 18 years old in March
  • My contract where I work ends in March
  • My son will graduate from high school in May
  • My son will start his freshman year of college (and one of the best chapters of his life) in August.
  • In August I will face a redefinition of who I have been for almost twenty years. One of the seldom talked about advantages (okay, watch Mama Mia) of being a single parent for most of a child's life, is a bond that develops of mutual respect and knowing you have made the most influence in the development of a human being while trying to give them the freedom to become their own individual personality.
  • Although I am educated to the level of PhD, I will have to gird courage to pursue interviews without the shame of being incapacitated by panic attacks and periodic agoraphobia which has limited my working options for the past six years. How do you apply for a position and explain despite your education that you have been limited with that mental illness without feeling shame and embarrassment?

The following are more goals than changes on the horizon. I hope they are probabilities as well.

  • With this as an example I am determined to be as brutally honest and not hide my faults and let me people judge me for who I am.
  • I will have the opportunity to decide to live to work or work to live and what balance of income and happiness is right for me.
  • I want to eat healthier and exercise regularly. This is a means to end of feeling more fit, and the bonus of lessening anxiety.
  • I will be faced with a choice to take a leap of faith and follow my dream of relocating, or safely looking for work in the Midwest. My wallpaper on the PC is Vancouver, second would be Seattle, but LA sounds very appealing. The LAistas talk of a thing called Trader Joe's which I want to see. I am simple and easy to please.

Things that I continue to be grateful for in 2009.

  • Good health and the health and well being of my family and friends.
  • The pixels of Buffistas who are the funniest, most intelligent, and insightful people on the planet. Thank you for letting me be a part of this world.


P.M. Marc - Jan 01, 2009 10:09:10 pm PST #172 of 381
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Seaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaatle... Seaaaaaaaaaatle....

We have TJs!


Beverly - Jan 01, 2009 10:10:29 pm PST #173 of 381
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

And Seattle's close to Vancouver.

And with luck, by 2010, DH and I will be in the area, too.


Theresa - Jan 01, 2009 10:12:24 pm PST #174 of 381
"What would it take to get your daughter to stop tweeting about this?"

Okay, you sold me, Plei. TJ's and Bev? It doesn't get any better.


DCJensen - Jan 01, 2009 10:18:08 pm PST #175 of 381
All is well that ends in pizza.

I hear Seattle's in for another 2-3 inches of snow today...


Beverly - Jan 01, 2009 10:33:04 pm PST #176 of 381
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Pbthlpptht, Daniel.


Theodosia - Jan 02, 2009 3:06:08 am PST #177 of 381
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Boston has TJ's in multiple, convenient locations, even!


Laura - Jan 02, 2009 4:19:13 am PST #178 of 381
Our wings are not tired.

Taunty taunters. I don't think they are even planning to come to S Florida.

Wow Austin, 2009 really will be an eventful year for you. It is exciting as well as scary. It sounds like you have prepared yourself as well as anyone could. We'll be cheering you on from the sidelines, and kicking you in the butt if you want.


Barb - Jan 02, 2009 4:21:09 am PST #179 of 381
“Not dead yet!”

Taunty taunters. I don't think they are even planning to come to S Florida.

This. Except substitute N. Florida. Best we can do is we finally got a Whole Foods and I have a new Fresh Market to look forward to at some point this year.


Laura - Jan 02, 2009 4:38:21 am PST #180 of 381
Our wings are not tired.

We have Whole Foods in Boca, but they are pricey. They don't have the awesome selection that TJ's offers either.