Coming in late on both discussions, but that never stopped me.
In "What is wrong with my students?" news: Today, we were doing an in-class activity. The class split up into groups, and I gave each group a formula to prove, with instructions that they should pick one group member to write up their proof and one to present it to the class. One student immediately took out his laptop and looked up the proof online.
This made me giggle. Because on the one hand, good use of resources, thinking outside the box, etc. On the other, totally missing the freaking point.
And vw, I get your annoyance and would no doubt feel the same way, but I also recognize that old refrain from dating magic (and other) geeks. I once came home from a graveyard shift to find the midwestern ex and two friends still playing the same game they had been when I left at 9 the night before. I got a little annoyed and went to bed. Got up at three PM, and they were still playing.
It makes it no less unjust and annoying, of course. But I don't think it has anything to do with you.
(These opinions are based solely on the contents of my head, and may have little or no relation at all to your experience, or indeed reality.)