((((vw))))
You know what they say about payback? Well I'm the bitch.
Fred ,'Life of the Party'
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askye - Nov 09, 2008 11:07:52 am PST #728 of 10000
Thrive to spite them
vw bug - Nov 09, 2008 11:08:17 am PST #729 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
Oooo..Barb, those do sound yum. In I'm-not-of-the-fail news, I made a baked brie with apples and dried cherries last night for a party that CBD went to. It was gone 20 minutes into the party, and he's insisting that I make it for Thanksgiving it was just that good. So, I do some things right...
DavidS - Nov 09, 2008 11:12:56 am PST #730 of 10000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
It's mostly/kind of relationship stuff. I'm bad at letting myself depend on other people. CBD is helping me with some stuff that is filled with baggage for me (money, actually), and it freaks me out that he won't be able to handle it, and he'll leave...or that I'll lose independence that I've fought so hard for.
That sounds like perfectly normal grown-up anxieties and issues. I'm not seeing the fail there.
Barb - Nov 09, 2008 11:13:08 am PST #731 of 10000
“Not dead yet!”
'Course you do, silly.
And was the brie in pastry or nekkid?
vw bug - Nov 09, 2008 11:15:16 am PST #732 of 10000
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I just want to be all strong and independent and not need anyone or their money or whatever. I feel like a leech and gold-digger, and I KNOW that's not the case. I do; and so does he. But, it's hard to convince myself otherwise.
Edited to fix spelling
vw bug - Nov 09, 2008 11:16:12 am PST #733 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
poptarts:
It was nekkid brie. I should have taken a picture. It was beautiful, if I do say so myself.
beth b - Nov 09, 2008 11:22:06 am PST #734 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
CBD is helping me with some stuff that is filled with baggage for me (money, actually), and it freaks me out that he won't be able to handle it, and he'll leave...or that I'll lose independence that I've fought so hard for.
Actually, that sounds like a grown-up worry for me. It took awhile to for DH and I to figure that part out after we were living together. It is only wrong if the situation was reversed, you wouldn't help him.
Barb - Nov 09, 2008 11:27:05 am PST #735 of 10000
“Not dead yet!”
sj - Nov 09, 2008 11:27:38 am PST #736 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
(((vw))) That is definitely an adult problem. Try to remember and give yourself some credit for all you do for him, like all the yummy food you cook.
brenda m - Nov 09, 2008 11:36:08 am PST #737 of 10000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
I might try out the new tester chocolate chip cookie recipe from CI today, if I get enough done cleaning up and stuff today.