Having the wisdom to know you are too drunk to drive is much better care-taking than what could happen if you didn't have it.
And by all that is holy, including your marriage, this is the way we prefer it - that you are sitting tight, talking through it, not driving home.  Because  it could have such an ugly ending, otherwise.
	
 
		
		
I  get  nervous if DH is out and I am drinking wine at home -- What if he needs me... but then he is an adult and so am I.  And who knew you  were both going to drink to much?  it wasn't a plan.  Just wait -- stay  in the car.  Hope DW wakes soon so you can call a cab.  
	
 
		
		
I'm trying to remember more drunk & stupid stories but so many of them have faded... like this one will for you
	
 
		
		
ooh ooh how about that time at the Presidents of the United States concert where we went to the mexican restaurant afterwards and I threw up all over the table and everybody.  Good times.  
	
 
		
		
We were having such a great time, until we weren't.
	
 
		
		
Dh remembers me being really drunk in front of him once.  we were living together.  I  think I talked constatrnly -- about things i couldn't do at that time.  Like have sex in various athletic ways.  I remember the next day much more vividly -- because I so rarely get a hang over. It takes near poisioning for  me to get a hangover 
	
 
		
		
Passing tissues to GC
You are doing the right thing now and will be fine, sweetie. Just give it time, or the call to other people (including to other people here to call other people).
And since I just typed people 3 times (4 now!), I think you may have a lot of people to take care of you. So you have options, OK?
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We were having such a great time, until we weren't.
Classic 
Too many college parties
	
 
		
		
How do I know when ai'm ok to drive??
	
 
		
		
I just got an email from the No on Prop 8 campaign.  It reads (in part)
 We achieve nothing if we isolate the people who did not stand with us in this fight. We only further divide our state if we attempt to blame people of faith, African American voters, rural communities and others for this loss. 
Now I feel bad because that's exactly what I was doing.