Angel: Is that what you think you are--a hero? Spike: Saved the world didn't I? Angel: Once. Talk to me after you've done it a couple more times.

'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 43: Who am I kidding? I love to brag.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beth b - Dec 15, 2008 10:01:33 am PST #4586 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Stop being sick. I command it!

Well, I tried.

the city of fremont collect money for families and seniors that need help -- found out they are short. The short notice came out friday and from my neighborhood we have raised about half of what we need.

food banks are hurting everywhere -- so if you know of one - donate. $$ or food.


beth b - Dec 15, 2008 10:01:40 am PST #4587 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

beth b - Dec 15, 2008 10:09:56 am PST #4588 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

have we heard from Aimee yet?


Barb - Dec 15, 2008 10:11:32 am PST #4589 of 10000
“Not dead yet!”

beth read my mind. I was just wondering the same thing.


Steph L. - Dec 15, 2008 10:14:03 am PST #4590 of 10000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

So, my primary-care doctor called me and said that he'd like me to get an MRI. He said I've been having too much weirdness with my back over the past 2 years, which I guess I have. He has to take care of the pre-certification, and then his office will let me know when I can get it done.

Our health insurance pays 90% of the MRI *after* we've met a $500-per-calendar-year deductible. Well, I haven't met *any* of the deductible this year, so I'm going to have to cough up $500. Which I have an emergency fund for, so it's okay, but still -- ouch.

My co-worker suggested that -- unless the pain comes back in a bad way -- I should wait until January to get the MRI, because if I get it now, with only 2 weeks left in 2008, then my $500 deductible "re-sets" at the beginning of 2009 all over again.

Good point. So unless the pain comes back as bad as it was over the weekend, or unless my doctor can come up with a convincing reason that I *must* get the MRI in the next 2 weeks, I'll do it, but I'm going to wait until January 2.

I'm at work right now, and my back still feels the same as earlier -- uncomfortable, but not PAINPAINPAIN. I'm okay sitting, which I wasn't last week, even *before* the PAINPAINPAIN. So, to me, that seems like improvement. I guess I'll just have to keep an eye on how it progresses.


Connie Neil - Dec 15, 2008 10:19:46 am PST #4591 of 10000
brillig

I should wait until January to get the MRI, because if I get it now, with only 2 weeks left in 2008, then my $500 deductible "re-sets" at the beginning of 2009 all over again.

Besides, with it not being at emergency levels, getting something scheduled at this time of year is a crapshoot.

And yes, stick it to the Insurance Man! Wipe out that deductible early! Before Hubby got on Medicaid, we'd morbidly wonder just how early in the year we'd wipe out the deductible. Really, it was a bitch to get onto, but disability has been a godsend. It's like in D&D, where you get a modifier and get to roll on a whole different table. (the geek tag never closes). It covers his doctor copays--big ass chunk of money some months--big hunks of hospital stays, etc. etc.

Oh, and it's probably going to wipe out the student loan that's been fucking with our lives for our entire married life! Take that, Bitch of an Ex Wife!


Steph L. - Dec 15, 2008 10:35:29 am PST #4592 of 10000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I also realized my throat is hoarse today, and couldn't figure out why.

Duh. All the howling and wailing I was doing Saturday at the hospital. I mean, *really.* You would never think I was capable of that level of (justifiable) histrionics.


meara - Dec 15, 2008 10:48:00 am PST #4593 of 10000

Yeah, waiting for the 2009 deductible sounds like a good plan at this point, Tepppy--that way if there IS anything wrong (god forbid) you've already covered it rather than having to pay both years'!


Steph L. - Dec 15, 2008 11:03:39 am PST #4594 of 10000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

that way if there IS anything wrong (god forbid) you've already covered it rather than having to pay both years'!

Exactly! I mean, obviously if the horrible PAINPAINPAIN comes back in the next 2 weeks (good god -- 2 weeks until the end of the year!), I'd do whatever I needed to, and to hell with the deductible. But if I can wait just a wee bit, then I will.


omnis_audis - Dec 15, 2008 11:25:33 am PST #4595 of 10000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

In the past 3 days, my LiveJournal has been friended/added/whatever they call it there by two complete strangers. The one guy has absolutely no common groups or interests or people. The other gal at least has some common interest, but no common groups or people. Both have less than 10 entries, all public view, and all rather generic and advice-like in orientation. One has 1000 friends, the other 1399 friends. Has anyone else gotten these? It's kind of new to me. I wish you could do the "ignore" thing like Facebook. I might have to do "friends only" soon. The bulk of my posts I lock out, so in essence it's friends only.