I skipped. I'm sorry. But, I need soothing. Or something.
I am now single.
It's all about choices, Faith. The ones we make, and the ones we don't. Oh, and the consequences. Those are always fun.
Angelus ,'Smile Time'
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vw bug - Dec 09, 2008 4:18:45 pm PST #3817 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
NoiseDesign - Dec 09, 2008 4:19:32 pm PST #3818 of 10000
Our wings are not tired
Hugs to you vw, I'm sorry things have gone this way.
Cashmere - Dec 09, 2008 4:19:48 pm PST #3819 of 10000
Now tagless for your comfort.
Oof, vw. That sucks.
Typo Boy - Dec 09, 2008 4:21:19 pm PST #3820 of 10000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Your ex's loss. He doesn't know what he is losing. Don't know whether hearing that is particularly soothing, but it is true.
vw bug - Dec 09, 2008 4:23:57 pm PST #3821 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
I'm actually doing ok. While his behavior was the catalyst on Saturday, the decision was mine. And I was especially glad of the decision when he clarified that, "You aren't trying hard enough to better your life," actually meant, "You aren't accomplishing enough."
It's probably bitchy of me to share that, but I'm feeling a little bitchy right now.
Don't get me wrong. He's a good guy. I mean him no ill will. I wish him the best, and I bet we'll actually stay in touch. But, ugh. I thought he knew me, and I think he doesn't.
Oh, also! He gave me some financial advice. I shouldn't be so giving.
SailAweigh - Dec 09, 2008 4:28:04 pm PST #3822 of 10000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
{{vw}} I'm so sorry.
JenP - Dec 09, 2008 4:31:50 pm PST #3823 of 10000
Oh, ugh, vw. I'm glad you're doing OK, and I'm sorry it worked out this way.
Laura - Dec 09, 2008 4:33:25 pm PST #3824 of 10000
Our wings are not tired.
You aren't trying hard enough to better your life
!!! I'm sorry, vw. But seriously this man does not know you very well. I'm sorry for your pain, but he is so far off base here.
Hil R. - Dec 09, 2008 4:34:21 pm PST #3825 of 10000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
{{vw} So sorry.
Anne W. - Dec 09, 2008 4:40:28 pm PST #3826 of 10000
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
{{{vw}}}