What you did to me was unbelievable, Connor. But then I got stuck in a hell dimension by my girlfriend one time for a hundred years, so three months under the ocean actually gave me perspective. Kind of a M.C. Escher perspective, but I did get time to think.

Angel ,'Conviction (1)'


Spike's Bitches 43: Who am I kidding? I love to brag.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Nov 22, 2008 6:45:45 pm PST #2235 of 10000
Compassionately intolerant

My biggest fear is that, when she comes down out of her tree, she'll be so embarrassed that she won't be able to come back without totally losing face. I never took it personally, but she probably won't believe that. Which means she loses twice...just so sad.

Thanks for the pat Sail. I really am bummed.


sj - Nov 22, 2008 6:55:03 pm PST #2236 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

vw, I hope you are watching or taping Saturday Night Live.


WindSparrow - Nov 22, 2008 6:59:09 pm PST #2237 of 10000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Bonny, that's crappy to have to deal with.

Barb, feel better soon.


Atropa - Nov 22, 2008 8:28:14 pm PST #2238 of 10000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Bonny, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that.

Barb, totally not trying to be funny, but if you have some hydrogen peroxide lying around, drop a capful in each ear. Wait until the crackling stops and then pour it out.

I soak q-tips in hydrogen peroxide instead of pouring some in my ears, but otherwise this is exactly what I do if I'm starting to feel cold symptoms coming on. It's worked every time so far, thank goodness.


Shir - Nov 23, 2008 2:01:48 am PST #2239 of 10000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

My ultra-orthodox religious representative of my American landlords will be here this week.

The artzy porn will have to go off the walls.

Damn.


WindSparrow - Nov 23, 2008 3:16:19 am PST #2240 of 10000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

The artzy porn will have to go off the walls.

I hate it when that happens.


hippocampus - Nov 23, 2008 3:58:44 am PST #2241 of 10000
not your mom's socks.

That doesn't explain the unpaid part.

nope. I can't explain that anyway. There was an agreement in place to cover any extra hours above part-time with comp-time. That was fine until I asked for the comp-time. So now I'm dealing with residual habits and packing up to leave at the same time.


Laura - Nov 23, 2008 5:14:55 am PST #2242 of 10000
Our wings are not tired.

Ah, thanks for the peroxide tip. I am all about prevention. If I feel the slightest twinge of anything I drown myself in fluids and VitC.

I'm sorry about the potential buyer, Suzi. Things have to loosen up in real estate soon. Craziness.

{{bonny}} I hope she recognizes her folly and then remembers that you are a compassionate and forgiving person.


sj - Nov 23, 2008 5:20:29 am PST #2243 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Bonny, I'm sorry about your client.

Suzi, I hope you find a buyer very soon.


Barb - Nov 23, 2008 6:17:04 am PST #2244 of 10000
“Not dead yet!”

Ooh, bonny, I'd totally forgotten about the peroxide trick. Probably tried to block it out since my mother used to do it to me when I was a kid and I HATED it. It's probably completely different as an adult when you're choosing to do it.

Although I'll at least start with Jilli's suggestion of Q-tips. *g*

I'm also sorry to hear about your clients-- poor woman to be that completely insecure. I can relate since as a young woman I had a horrible, horrible tendency towards jealousy (probably part inherent, part learned behavior from my mom) coupled with a horrible temper and I know how incredibly hard that is to overcome. And the feelings of shame and embarrassment after you get to a saner place. The worst part of that kind of behavior is that so often it can lead straight into self-fulfilling prophecies, thereby only perpetuating the emotions.

It's a tough, tough cycle to break.