Fallout from the shower finally happened. Apparently step-mother's family stared daggers at her all day and we shouldn't refer to TCG's stepmother as his stepmother because that is offensive to her.
Let me guess. We're in a hurry.
Inara ,'Serenity'
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sj - Nov 02, 2008 3:05:27 pm PST #9844 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Barb - Nov 02, 2008 3:06:31 pm PST #9845 of 10001
“Not dead yet!”
Oh hell, sj-- elope. It's simply not worth this. It should be your day, not the day to indulge everyone else's neuroses.
vw bug - Nov 02, 2008 3:08:30 pm PST #9846 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Wow. She sure knows how to hold a grudge. That's just ridiculous. I'm so sorry, babe. Hang in there!
askye - Nov 02, 2008 3:09:25 pm PST #9847 of 10001
Thrive to spite them
Eloping seems to be a common choice, my SIL has photographed quite a few elopements.
sj - Nov 02, 2008 3:13:23 pm PST #9848 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
TCG's dad didn't start dating the stepmom until 6 years after the divorce, so there is no grudge to hold. Eloping is a definite. Family party after the elopement is in question now.
vw bug - Nov 02, 2008 3:15:15 pm PST #9849 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Oh, no. I meant from the shower. That's just insane that she's still talking about it. Ridiculous.
Do what you want, babe. Do what you want. And remember...you're not marrying TCG's mom...you're marrying TCG.
sj - Nov 02, 2008 3:20:10 pm PST #9850 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Sorry, vw. She hadn't seen us in person since then so she hung on to it. It's what she does.
vw bug - Nov 02, 2008 3:20:49 pm PST #9851 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Oh, ok. Gotcha. Still. Grrrrrr.
DavidS - Nov 02, 2008 3:48:24 pm PST #9852 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Happy birthday, Ginger! My retroactive birthday wish will make this week totally sugar, but also accident free.
WindSparrow - Nov 02, 2008 4:02:53 pm PST #9853 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Sorry the stepmother is tetchy on the topic of her stepness. Sounds like a great time to refer to her affectionately using the diminutive of her given name that annoys her most, in the most cheerfully oblivious fashion possible.