Willow: Yes. Hi. You must be Angel's handsome, yet androgynous, son. Connor: It's Connor. Willow: And the sneer's genetic. Who knew?

'A Hole in the World'


Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Fay - Sep 28, 2008 7:33:19 am PDT #6868 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Holy crap, Shir. I can't even imagine that.

Andi - I don't recall the order they were taken in - I think the general idea was to give the audience the message that it's a Whodunnit without particularly giving away either who done it, or who it was done to - just all round OTT nonsense. But fun!


WindSparrow - Sep 28, 2008 10:21:25 am PDT #6869 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I think the general idea was to give the audience the message that it's a Whodunnit without particularly giving away either who done it, or who it was done to - just all round OTT nonsense. But fun!

It looked fun!

... I just can't: when I'm worried sick about her, I'm worried sick about her....

So talk. Cry. It won't be better if you'll lock it inside you, and you might end up feeling worse.

And there is the possibility that if the others never see you cry or get upset about it, they may think it is not ok for them to cry and get upset around you. I wish there were a better framework for being honest with our emotions without making them overwhelming or shameful. Both Shir and sj have a situation that is truly worrisome. If you were not worried to some extent, it would be a sign of deeper problems. It sounds like Shir, you have found a good balance for you. And sj, I hope you can find a good balance too.


Shir - Sep 28, 2008 10:45:25 am PDT #6870 of 10001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Oh boy; now I got the Buffistas worried.

I just want to make it clear about my sister: it's not an easy situation, and yes, it is worrisome, but it might not as be as bad as you think: some my major concerns are for my sister's sanity and the probably future PTSD she'll have to deal with. She's on the border of a combat zone, serving in a non-combat role. Rockets are falling around her, and that's the big danger: these days, when it's "nice and quiet", we're talking about 1-3 per day. In less quiet times... I know about days there were 50-60 rockets per day. She saw dead bodies decaying in the sun. She saw life and death situations. She's excellent at her role, and can make it to officers' course. She's 19. She's awesome, great person. She saved a hell lot of lives, on both sides, and keeps on saving them on a daily basis. I'm proud of her, more than words can say.

And we're trying to be there for her, as much as we can.

I don't know/think I can compare her situation to sj's nephew's situation. At least I know mine will be over in 13-24 months.

Edited for grammar.


WindSparrow - Sep 28, 2008 11:00:17 am PDT #6871 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Oh boy; now I got the Buffistas worried.

Well, yeah. But now we know how better to send out the ~ma.


Shir - Sep 28, 2008 11:11:29 am PDT #6872 of 10001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

{{Buffistas}}

You're more than welcome to send it to my mom first: God knows she needs the quiet-sleep-at-nights~ma.


Barb - Sep 28, 2008 11:12:19 am PDT #6873 of 10001
“Not dead yet!”

Well, yeah. But now we know how better to send out the ~ma.

Yep, this.


WindSparrow - Sep 28, 2008 11:25:24 am PDT #6874 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Peaceful nights sleep ~ma for Shir's mom, and physical and mental safety for Shir's sister.


Burrell - Sep 28, 2008 11:51:47 am PDT #6875 of 10001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Fay, you're looking great!


Strix - Sep 28, 2008 1:57:59 pm PDT #6876 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I have to seond (third?!) that. Fay, you are looking faaabulous, darlink.

And yo, purples and pinks? TOTALLY your colors.


Gadget_Girl - Sep 28, 2008 2:08:36 pm PDT #6877 of 10001
Just call me "Siouxsie Shunshine".

I'll fourth Fay looking fabulous and will second purples and pinks TOTALLY being your colors.