It's simple. I slap 'em around a bit, torture 'em, make their lives hell...Sure, the nice guys'll run away,but every now and then you'll find a prince like Spike who gets off on it.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laga - Sep 02, 2008 8:52:07 am PDT #4063 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

thank-you teachers for everything.

{{{Erin}}} good on you for knowing when to quit.

& Omnis you were right about that golf game. I clicked over to peek and see what it was like and ended up playing 18 holes.


Trudy Booth - Sep 02, 2008 8:52:25 am PDT #4064 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Today's Lunch With Da Man consisted of: pork loin, asparagus, and cauliflower

Loving the corporate foodstuffs. They make me nice veggies. Nom nom nom


Laga - Sep 02, 2008 8:54:29 am PDT #4065 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I'm chuckling again at the COMM in which I set up Tom. As I was getting in my car I heard the kid again, "Momma you just don't understand!" Which is also probably true.


sj - Sep 02, 2008 8:57:58 am PDT #4066 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Erin, I'm glad you are out of the toxic place. Best of luck finding something new quickly.

I just got back from my doctor's office and I was talking about pregnancy concerns (still a while off). I'm worried about pregnancy weight adding extra stress to my back and knees, so I'm trying to lose weight now (7 lbs so far). Anyway he said because I am heavy for my height that I would only need to gain 10-15 lbs when pregnant. Is he on crack? I've never heard of gaining so little weight when pregnant.

He also wants me to switch from effexor to either zoloft or prozac and go off adderall before getting pregnant, which I was expecting.


flea - Sep 02, 2008 9:00:11 am PDT #4067 of 10001
information libertarian

If you're overweight when you get pregnant, you can even safely lose weight during pregnancy, and I think in some cases it's recommended.


beth b - Sep 02, 2008 9:00:23 am PDT #4068 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Erin - sending the job ma~~~~~

today I have

- fed and shot the cat

-folded last night's load of laundry

- had a successful discussion with the bank for taking too much money out of our account

- deposited money in the bank

- just put the second load of laundry in washer

now I have to work?


Calli - Sep 02, 2008 9:04:02 am PDT #4069 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm heading to the doctor's myself, tomorrow afternoon. Some of it's the standard yearly check-up (about two years late--oops). Some of it is getting shots for my Senegal trip in December. But I'm also thinking of asking my doctor whether going on some anti-anxiety meds for a short while might be a good thing. I've found myself staring off into space hyperventilating more than once lately, and attempting to self-medicate with food and, occasionally, booze. Which doesn't strike me as terribly healthy. Does anyone have any suggestions, comments, stories of joy and/or warning about this sort of thing?


Barb - Sep 02, 2008 9:06:01 am PDT #4070 of 10001
“Not dead yet!”

Anyway he said because I am heavy for my height that I would only need to gain 10-15 lbs when pregnant. Is he on crack? I've never heard of gaining so little weight when pregnant.

I was very overweight during my pregnancies and my doc recommended I not gain over 25 lbs, which is what I did with Nate and with Abby, it was only 21 lbs. They don't want you increasing your risk of gestational diabetes.


Miracleman - Sep 02, 2008 9:07:22 am PDT #4071 of 10001
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020

...who works on Labor Day? Nyuk, nyuk, nyuk I'm sorry.


sj - Sep 02, 2008 9:09:56 am PDT #4072 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks flea and Barb. I still want to lose weight and get in better shape before getting pregnant, but that's good to know.

Calli, I stress eat a lot and I haven't felt the urge to do that since starting effexor, fwiw.