I'm confused. If they're not monogamous why not go for it? Are you only interested in a monogamous relationship? If so don't worry about it. I used to have a mono friend who enjoyed teasing me mercilessly and when I went home to my bf he got to reap the muy picante benefits.
When you look back at this, in the three seconds it'll take you to turn to dust, I think you'll find the mistake was touching my stuff.
Buffy ,'Lessons'
Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?
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Laga - Sep 01, 2008 1:06:54 am PDT #3926 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
meara - Sep 01, 2008 1:09:37 am PDT #3927 of 10001
No, they're not even really in a relationship, per se, but knowing the girl is seeing other people is one thing. Having the girl hook up with a FRIEND of yours is a whole other thing, really. No matter how open you are, that can cause drama. And my friend? Is already pretty freakin' DRAMA right now.
Stephanie - Sep 01, 2008 2:33:06 am PDT #3928 of 10001
Trust my rage
I just woke up from what was, I think, my most hellish night as a parent. Frisco had a 102 fever and horrible cough and was exhausted but unable to sleep due to his cough. The whole family was up from about 1-3am. Frisco and I were up from about 11. (Ellie almost certainly has an ear infection). I finally got Frisco to sleep by driving him around the neighborhood for about 6 minutes. (Why didn't I think of that earlier?)
He's still asleep and I am exhausted. Ellie is busy arbitrating what the dogs may eat for breakfast and Joe is out surfing.
flea - Sep 01, 2008 2:52:18 am PDT #3929 of 10001
information libertarian
If my husband went out surfing after a night like that, he'd have a huge dope-slap waiting when he got home.
Stephanie - Sep 01, 2008 3:04:32 am PDT #3930 of 10001
Trust my rage
I know! Although I talked to him and he actually went running, not that it matters. I think I'm just too tired to be mad, you know? Plus, he's almost always gone in the morning when we get up so it's not unusual at all. I hope to get a nap out of it later.
WindSparrow - Sep 01, 2008 3:07:15 am PDT #3931 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
The gronk, she is mighty. I went to feed the cats, and managed to completely miss Sammie's dish when I spooned out her portion. Ick.
vw bug - Sep 01, 2008 3:07:30 am PDT #3932 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Oh, Stephanie! What a night! Nap! Definitely!
WindSparrow - Sep 01, 2008 3:08:20 am PDT #3933 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Stephanie, I hope those kids get better and you can get some sleep.
WindSparrow - Sep 01, 2008 3:26:44 am PDT #3934 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
I just had wayyyyyyyyy too much trouble lighting the stove to make some hot cocoa. It's a darned good thing this is a gas stove with electronic ignition. If it were a wood stove, there probably would not be a happy ending to the story. The happy ending is, the house is still standing, and I have my cocoa, which probably has a modicum of caffeine.
hippocampus - Sep 01, 2008 5:36:57 am PDT #3935 of 10001
not your mom's socks.
Vortex all of our thoughts are with you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss. Late to post because of connectivity only.