I don't know about you guys, but I've had it with super-strong little women who aren't me.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Aug 13, 2008 4:09:37 pm PDT #1530 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

To clarify, if I was to address a group of female Bitches with a cheerful "Hello, ladies", would I be offending people?

Nah. It's not an offensive word by itself - it's very context related. That kind of thing is a-okay by most people, I think.

Kristin explained the athletic team thing well - that's a specific case where it's really bothersome. It's not the only one, but it's probably the most obvious.

In conclusion, "okay lady, I love you, bye bye!"

t /Mindy


Pix - Aug 13, 2008 4:11:17 pm PDT #1531 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

To clarify, if I was to address a group of female Bitches with a cheerful "Hello, ladies", would I be offending people?

Wouldn't offend me in the least.

Oh GG. That's horrifying.


WindSparrow - Aug 13, 2008 4:11:21 pm PDT #1532 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

/me sics Mindy and Katie KaBoom on Gadget Girl's Draconian Dictator.


Sophia Brooks - Aug 13, 2008 4:12:46 pm PDT #1533 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

oh my goodness, GG. Shouldn't they give you more notice if only to prepare your lesson plans?


WindSparrow - Aug 13, 2008 4:14:52 pm PDT #1534 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

yay for the good Lucy news, Brenda!


Gadget_Girl - Aug 13, 2008 4:18:55 pm PDT #1535 of 10001
Just call me "Siouxsie Shunshine".

oh my goodness, GG. Shouldn't they give you more notice if only to prepare your lesson plans?

Yep, they should. They seem to be totally disregarding all formalities and pleasantries. My job sucks. I was basically told to do the job or quit.

WindSparrow and company...please BRING IT! I'll leave the keys to the front office by the Pirate guarding the front door of the admin office.


Jessica - Aug 13, 2008 4:19:03 pm PDT #1536 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Jessica! You're in my brain again!

It's so comfy and HAWT in here!


Typo Boy - Aug 13, 2008 4:20:14 pm PDT #1537 of 10001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

In the sports context "lady" is like using "sculptress". Sculptors are by default male. A woman who does sculpture needs her own word because plain old "sculptor" can't include her. That is offensive and so is "lady" applied to teams where the male version needs no gendered modifier.


SailAweigh - Aug 13, 2008 4:22:47 pm PDT #1538 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Good news, brenda! Fast-recovery~ma for Lu.


Barb - Aug 13, 2008 4:23:09 pm PDT #1539 of 10001
“Not dead yet!”

Yep, they should. They seem to be totally disregarding all formalities and pleasantries. My job sucks. I was basically told to do the job or quit.

Do it dressed in your finest new Goth apparel as a nice signal finger. Bastards. Ignorant, backwater, just this side of hillbilly, submoronic, wastes of DNA.