Simon: I'm trying to put this as delicately as I can... How do I know you won't kill me in my sleep? Mal: You don't know me, son. So let me explain this to you once: If I ever kill you, you'll be awake, you'll be facing me, and you'll be armed.

'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


amych - Aug 12, 2008 4:22:42 pm PDT #1323 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

"Indoor court shoes" are tennis, basketball, volleyball... basically, anything that's not running shoes (which have too much tread, and so grip the floor a lot, especially when you're just learning footwork).

More generally, you need to be comfortable and be able to move. Sweats, a good sports bra, sneakers, etc. But you won't need to come in with anything specialized for a beginner's class.


Gadget_Girl - Aug 12, 2008 4:25:54 pm PDT #1324 of 10001
Just call me "Siouxsie Shunshine".

I forgot to add this to my post.

One of my mentors had a heart attack almost 2 years ago. He recovered, but we hoped the college he teaches at would realize he needs an assistant (namely me). I just found out today that he had a fairly bad seizure 4 or 5 weeks ago. The doctors aren't allowing him to drive.

The college still won't recognize he needs help. He retires in 1.5 years and would love to see me take his place. (exciting for me, if I can just make it to January 2010). Bigger than everything, though, I'm really worried about him. He is an amazing professor and a wonderful friend.


Steph L. - Aug 12, 2008 5:17:51 pm PDT #1325 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

But you won't need to come in with anything specialized for a beginner's class.

Right -- if you have sneakers of any kind, just stick with those and don't buy anything new until after you start and get a feel for what you might need.


billytea - Aug 12, 2008 6:01:33 pm PDT #1326 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Also, forgot to write, the original reason I came into bitches. I took a quick peak at the medal count. And Google linked me to a .cn site, which I assume is a China domain. Since China is leading in Gold, they have China at the top of the pack. Even though USA is leading in overall qty of medals. I thought it was a funny spin doctor moment.

No, that's the standard ordering protocol AFAIA. Certainly every time I've seen an official ordering it's been by golds first. (They've won over 20% of all the golds on offer so far! As performances go, props to them.)


omnis_audis - Aug 12, 2008 6:43:07 pm PDT #1327 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

oh ya, lots of props to them. Gold is def where it's at. I caught some of the ladies sync diving. Damn! They were kicking ass!

Watching the lady gymnists now. I find it interesting that the Chinese list a whole province for 'home', vs. a city.


Hil R. - Aug 12, 2008 6:50:50 pm PDT #1328 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Watching the lady gymnists now. I find it interesting that the Chinese list a whole province for 'home', vs. a city.

I noticed that too. I wonder why they do it that way.


Strix - Aug 12, 2008 7:03:18 pm PDT #1329 of 10001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Interesting convo about weight and perception. I've never been thin; I think, maybe, when I was a freshman in hs, I was my postpubescent lowest -- 150, at a guess. That's the last time I have ever been able to strap into skintight size 11's.

My highest was probably about 1 1/2-2 years ago, about 210. I'm 5'4".

I am almost 36, and I feel the most comfortable with my weight I have ever been -- I'm about 180 now, and I dropped weight due to digging out of deep, deep depression. Those of you who have been arounf Biffistas in its various permutations have an inkling of how low it was.

All of the stuff Tep and ChiKat (I think -- it's been another brain-drainingly long pre-back-to-school days) said about (a) gradual reassignment of brain patterns re: body, and also (b) damn, that mirror is weird, my body isn't that big-ness is true.

Part of it, I think, is getting a little older and more focused on other things, rather than an overweening awareness of what my body is and is not, and also, not caring so much about what other people people thought of me. I worried less about what I looked like, and, huh, I didn't stress eat because of self-hate as much. Also, I got control over other areas in my life (not total, but SO much better!) and the bodt just kinda...went along.

Except for hoo-ha issues and silly little brain-chems issues, I am very healthy. And moreover, while I am sometimes startled by the way I look, it is mostly due to the difference between how my body FEELS. I mean, tactilely. It's like, as long as I have a waist, I'm NSM with what the other measurements are. I have an hourglass; I loveloveLOVE the very distinct dip between my hips and waist, esp. in my lower back. I think it's so cool! And my skin is supersoft, and my legs are thick, but well-shaped.

I didn't wear sleevless tops till I was about 32, but now, I'm not caring. And I'll always have a little pot, but as long as I have that dip, it's not so worrisome.

It's just too bad it took me till I was in my thirties to figure out al this. I do think that spending the last 3 years in an environment that was largely non-white -- where if you DIDN'T have a booty and melones, and calling a girl or woman "thick" was a compliment and not a complaint -- this really just kind of helped all the other stuff settle into a smoother groove.

Plus? I walk like a fucking rockstar. I can't help it, and now I embrace it.

Go team egotastic me, and I don't care, because it's better than all those years of the same entries of "I fucking hate myself FATPIG" in about 10 journals.


amych - Aug 12, 2008 7:22:38 pm PDT #1330 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

o_a, I hate to have to say it, but it's been bugging... women's diving. Women's gymnastics.


omnis_audis - Aug 12, 2008 7:24:39 pm PDT #1331 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

interesting what Bela said about the Chinese female gymnists. What do others think? Are they over 16? Is that why they don't list a home town (so research can't be done)?


Vortex - Aug 12, 2008 7:29:35 pm PDT #1332 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I saw one girl who did not look over 12, shortness aside. She just didn't have the facial maturity.