Allyson I hope it all works out. keep looking for a new job, yes?

I lost all patience with mac tonight which was just all wrong from the grown up and then proceed to make things worse and worse so he was not in bed until after 10 and now I've been on the phone with the parents for 2 hours. Tomorrow is the day I need to be to work early, I am my own worst enemy. and I really should write up the evening for the therapist, but I think I am going to bed instead and try to salvage a bit.

Sleep hard. Some days just suck. Not an indictment on parenthood, some days just suck.

If you are being replaced by two people, expectations were unfair.

Oh and on class mobility: [link] Pew Charitable Trusts, about as mainstream a source as you can get. Starts pg 38. U.S. above U.K, but below France, Germany, Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Canada, Finland in overall social mobility, but even below UK in chance for someone who starts out poor not to end up poor. Even UK is above U.S. in odds someone poor ending up as a prosperous worker or middle class. I'm going to be where UK differs is in odds of someone middle class to end up rich. J.K. Rowling an exception: started out middle class, spent some time very poor, then ended up not just rich but in the super-rich. U.S. is nothing special in social mobility. Lots of nations do better on that than us.

At least the short term situation is more livable, right, Allyson?

Fascinating class discussion that I've pretty much missed. (Is "harried" a class?) Count me as another one who grew up working class and then floundered post-college into clerical work. Though my brothers never did--I think that trap is easier to fall into for a woman. Sometimes I still wish I could have a do-over on my 20's so I could build a proper career for myself, because I am ambitious. But, really, all I'm ambitious for anymore is to become published, so maybe it doesn't matter. A day job is a day job, as long as it pays the bills.

I have to say, I rolled my eyes forever at one of the speakers at last weekend's writers conference. He'd been a high-powered attorney who had an epiphany that he was doing the wrong thing with his life, so he quit to write books. For two years he lived on his savings and his wife's income, and at the end he thought he was going to have to give up and go back to work, and then he'd Never Live His Dream.

All I could think was that maybe my dream is stronger than his, because I don't let the pesky fact I have to work full-time stop me from writing.

Whoa, a whole new Natter!

Damned browser with the damned crashing.

Oooh! I have a teensy weensy bacon chocolate bar. Very excited. But however will I be able to decide when to eat it? I have 8 weeks. If I were more optimistic I'd say when I get my next job.

There are plenty of good reasons to avoid Wholefoods. That curry one caught my eye too.

Cute!

In terms of what colours are who, this isn't me, is it? I really like the shape of that dress, dammit, and most of the scooter dresses on ebay are polyester.

Hey ita!

Wow, I could never wear this dress. I mean, I can, but it won't look good on me.

The pig IS cute!

I think you could wear it, ita, though it's probably not your absolute best color.

Hey Shir!

Thanks, Susan. I'll give it some more thought. I also poked around their late 60s suit section just in case and put in a small bid on one, but that's for business.

Yeah, that's my job-shopping for today. Buying old suits.

Wait...I just thought of one more recruiter-seeking email I can send out. I'm not completely blowing today. How do people job hunt when they're already working 40 hours? And the headaches don't help.

Okay, letter just about sent. How do you end the punctuation on:

Your connections really all that, she asks tauntingly

It feels empty without a question mark, but it's fondling the wrong word.