Mal: And I never back down from a fight. Inara: Yes, you do! You do all the time!

'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beth b - Jul 30, 2008 4:58:20 pm PDT #9329 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

bonny ,I'm just wondering - maybe you are fauxson's lesson. For your sake , I hope not.

Pretty much - If you've lied to one person I know -- I think you've lied to me.

I can't say I was perfect as a kid. I will say the harshest punishment that I remember as a child, I let a friend lie to protect me and didn't correct it. and I did try cheating on a french test ( no help at all). IOW it was never worth it.


sj - Jul 30, 2008 5:05:26 pm PDT #9330 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, everyone. Do you think that a wide red belt would look good with it? I tried on a little black shrug to go over it, which looked great, but the shrug was almost the same price as the dress. I was too cheap to buy it. So, I'm going to look for something similar somewhere else.


vw bug - Jul 30, 2008 5:09:14 pm PDT #9331 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Oh, red belt would be fantastic!


beekaytee - Jul 30, 2008 5:17:45 pm PDT #9332 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

bonny ,I'm just wondering - maybe you are fauxson's lesson. For your sake , I hope not.

beth, in as much as I would be sad about that, I think I'd be LESS sad than I am right now because the sacrifice would have some benefit. Sadly, I don't think he particularly gives a shit.

His folks both tell me how important I am to him and how much they appreciate my influence but the evidence? NSM.

I've been avoiding him but this conversation today has led me to think I need to tell him where I am. No more 'come to jesus' talks. That didn't work. But a simple, Dude, my friendship and care for you cannot withstand the lying to and about me, so yeah...I'm sad you made that choice.

Sigh.

I'm loving omnis' idea. Wish I could do that!


Cashmere - Jul 30, 2008 5:18:29 pm PDT #9333 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

sj, so cute!!! A red belt would look fabulous with it.

When we were on our house hunting trip here (my birthday, October 13th) my wedding ring broke--the diamond wrap around the solitaire engagement ring completely broke off and was lost. I started shopping for a replacement set and ended up buying a nice anniversary band instead. So I saved my original engagement diamond and had it set in a pendant like this.


SailAweigh - Jul 30, 2008 5:33:37 pm PDT #9334 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Ooh, I like that Cash. Very chic.


WindSparrow - Jul 30, 2008 5:39:06 pm PDT #9335 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Gorgeous dress, sj.

Gorgeous pendent, Cash.

bonny, that sounds like a conversation that is going to be tough to have.


beekaytee - Jul 30, 2008 6:13:22 pm PDT #9336 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

bonny, that sounds like a conversation that is going to be tough to have.

Ironically, my disillusionment is working for me for once in this case. It'll be tough, but...to quote a couple of our favorite characters...my days of taking him seriously are definitely coming to a middle...or maybe three-quarters. And, I'm coming perilously close to being paralyzed with the not caring.

Okay, that last part is a lie, but my grief will be less severe than if he hadn't been such a twat.


Gadget_Girl - Jul 30, 2008 6:29:22 pm PDT #9337 of 10001
Just call me "Siouxsie Shunshine".

Beautiful pendent, Cash!

Conversation ~ma for bonny


beekaytee - Jul 30, 2008 6:48:19 pm PDT #9338 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

Thanks hon, I really appreciate the support.