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'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Jul 26, 2008 7:35:54 am PDT #8769 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

I'm thinking of waxing my thighs and bikini because shaving is such a pain. I'm very hairy, when I was little mom joked about the golden fleece on my arms.

I don't shave in the winter and my legs and feet look like a guys. I've dated a guy with less body hair than me I was jealous. I have to shave the tops of my feet and my toes. Not to mention all the other shaving and plucking. I've never had a landing strip or anything like that but Erin's friends sound a bit like me.


vw bug - Jul 26, 2008 7:59:38 am PDT #8770 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Oh my goodness! My childhood best friend just tracked me down on FB! CRAZINESS!


vw bug - Jul 26, 2008 8:10:45 am PDT #8771 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Completely unrelated...my parents REALLY like the boy. YAY!!!!


Susan W. - Jul 26, 2008 8:14:56 am PDT #8772 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I know lots of women who are totally hair-free, and it's a popular thing. But the preadolescent appearance is just a squick that I can't get rid of, no matter how many hairless hoo-hoos I see.

You're not the only one with this squick, FWIW. I can't see myself every going hairless for exactly that reason.


Susan W. - Jul 26, 2008 8:15:39 am PDT #8773 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Yay for parents liking the boy!


Laura - Jul 26, 2008 8:22:18 am PDT #8774 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Yay for parental approval of the boy! I'm not surprised that he liked them because vw's parents = adorable.


Gadget_Girl - Jul 26, 2008 8:26:51 am PDT #8775 of 10001
Just call me "Siouxsie Shunshine".

So happy about the parental approval and that the boy liked them!


Scrappy - Jul 26, 2008 8:33:34 am PDT #8776 of 10001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I have done waxes for beach vacations, but otherwise I trim. Even though I only have to shave my legs from the knees down, for some reason I have hideous hobbit feet and have to shave my toes, which is hard and annoying.


Sophia Brooks - Jul 26, 2008 8:42:53 am PDT #8777 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Yay for the boy likeing!

I once had the weirdest argument with a director over pubic hair-- we did a play with a scene with the really trailer trashy mom in the eighties answering the door in her t-shirt. And the son referances "her bush hanging right out there" and the director wanted her to have a Brazilian with the landing strip. And I am like "um-- I don't think that is correct time period pubic hair." and we had an arguement about it and he one, although I still maintain I was right.

Also, I am half Italian and fair skinned, so of course I have LOTS of dark hair that stands out even more, and, like Askye, look like a man when I don't shave my legs. Frankly, I could probably grow a moustache and maybe a goatee if I hadn't been taking care of that for so long, although a lot of it is the dark hair/light skin thing. There is a Female to Male transgendered nurse in our building, and we joke about me giving him my extra hair (nurses have strange senses of humor in my experience)


Laga - Jul 26, 2008 8:57:03 am PDT #8778 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Yay for parental boy likeage!

I would love to meet someone who thinks hairy girls are sexy. I miss living in a cold climate and going all winter without shaving. On the other hand I find hairless oiled boys appealing. But then I also like running my fingers over a nice hairy chest. OK I like boys. And girls. I think girls with hairy arms are sexy. I used to work with a woman who had quite a bit of blonde fuzz on her forearms. Drove me nuts when she reached across me for barware.