This is so nice. Having everyone together for my birthday. Of course, you could smash in all my toes with a hammer and it will still be the bestest Buffy Birthday Bash in a big long while.

Buffy ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sparky1 - Jul 25, 2008 1:50:21 pm PDT #8688 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

Continued ~ma, Drew.

connie, that near-miss must have been very scary.

I have a part time librarian who is very difficult to manage because (in my non-medical, unqualified opinion) I believe he has Asperger's or something similar. He was hired 15 years ago by my predecessor to work in Public Services and the difficult to manage part is that he just doesn't have that air of approachability one likes to find in their Reference Librarian when one has a question. The students complain about him and every Friday we have a discussion about how his behavior is off-putting. Today we discussed how he can't enter an occupied study room without knocking/saying anything and close the blinds. One of the first conversations I had with him was about how he couldn't turn all the lights off in the Reference room and close the blinds. I've now told him he's not allowed to touch any of the blinds in the library.

He needs to be let go, but the Big Boss won't let me get rid of him (yet).


Vortex - Jul 25, 2008 2:01:42 pm PDT #8689 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Start the paper trail.


megan walker - Jul 25, 2008 2:21:54 pm PDT #8690 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

I'm being cheery and positive about things around the house bit I'm weary and tired and sad. Also, I miss my Dad.

{{{ND}}} I really feel for you right now 'cause I know how hard it is to be really missing one parent while trying to be strong for the other one. You will get through this.

In happier news, I just got two batches that "absolutely, positively have to be there overnight" out the door. Of course, it was supposed to be three, but I'm only human people.


beth b - Jul 25, 2008 2:50:15 pm PDT #8691 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

glad the universe stood in the way , connie.

ION that is silly and fustrating I have dropped the same giant vanillia yogurt container on my carpeted kitchen floor. gross


Nora Deirdre - Jul 25, 2008 3:21:57 pm PDT #8692 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I'm being cheery and positive about things around the house bit I'm weary and tired and sad. Also, I miss my Dad.

Oh, Drew. I hope you are able to mourn your dad and take care of you soon. Or have the freedom to cry or drink or freak out or do whatever you need to do.

My heart is breaking for you. I've seen too many (adult) children lose and mourn their fathers (relatively unexpectedly) this year. My thoughts are with you, with all of you. I'm so sorry.


sj - Jul 25, 2008 3:33:55 pm PDT #8693 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{Drew}}} I hope you can get some time for yourself to mourn and rest soon. I can't imagine how hard it must be to pretend you are fine with all you're going through.


Sophia Brooks - Jul 25, 2008 3:39:15 pm PDT #8694 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

{{{NoiseDesign}}} Please try and take care of yourself as best as you can.


SuziQ - Jul 25, 2008 3:39:57 pm PDT #8695 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Colorado drivers license has been achieved. AND I registered to vote too! Woot.

Line was horrible, but all I had to do was take a vision test (no glasses, yay). Didn't have to do a written or drive test. So, now I have a California license with a hole in it and a paper Colorado license. I should get the real one in the mail in 1-4 weeks.

{{{Drew}}} I worry about the time when my mom will need that level of assistance. She is already losing her hearing and does not handle change well. This move has really stressed her out and I get all the fall out.

Gah, sorry for the meme there. Take care of yourself Drew. That is the only way you will be able to take care of anyone else. MWAH!


sj - Jul 25, 2008 3:49:08 pm PDT #8696 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Colorado drivers license has been achieved. AND I registered to vote too! Woot.

Go you! It took me about 18 months to do that and I only moved one state over.

I got dressed up tonight and we went out for a yummy dinner and a couple of drinks. I think I managed to break the awful, nasty mood I have been in for the past couple of weeks.


Steph L. - Jul 25, 2008 4:24:43 pm PDT #8697 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Can Teppy's boy teach walking in high heels at the BA? Heaven knows I never learned.

Ginger, if I ever get him around a group of Buffistae, he will *happily* teach anyone who wants to learn. For HOURS.

I've been busy all day today -- Fridays are the "off" day for the 4-day/10-hour-day workweek -- getting an eye exam and paying shitloads of money for new glasses and contacts, and then seeing my primary-care doctor to get a referral to a hand surgeon because my wrist, after 4-5 months is not any better, and then doing tons of laundry (which, shit, I just remembered there's laundry on the clothesline outside and it's dark now).

Anyway, I wanted to pop in and wish vw a happy happy birthday and offer more good thoughts in Drew's direction and some extra cardiac-ma to connie's DH.

And now I'm going to rescue the laundry before everything gets all dew-ed upon.