No studying? Damn! Next thing they'll tell me is I'll have to eat jelly doughnuts or sleep with a supermodel to get things done around here. I ask you, how much can one man give?

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


megan walker - Jul 16, 2008 5:50:44 pm PDT #7369 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Probably, but I would assume that most spouses have joint tenancy which would exempt much of their property from consideration in estate taxes. For example, a house owned jointly wouldn't factor into the estate, it would just pass directly to the spouse.


Pix - Jul 16, 2008 5:53:08 pm PDT #7370 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

K, thanks. We're just trying to make sure Drew's mom doesn't end up slammed with taxes this year. I'm sure it will be all right.


megan walker - Jul 16, 2008 5:58:22 pm PDT #7371 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Actually, now I've googled. You should see this: [link]


Fay - Jul 16, 2008 5:59:16 pm PDT #7372 of 10001
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

I have had my hair very long and fairly short, and I liked both. (Although the practically-shaven thing I did when I was 13 or so was DREADFUL. I looked like Uncle Fester.)

These days I'd be fairly nervous of having it long again, because it's so much thinner than it used to be & (1) I don't think it would look so good, whilst (2) I'd be scared stiff of the extra weight making it more inclined to fall out.

It's weird, the number of men who think short hair on women is appalling. Not just not attractive on that particular woman, but philosophically inadvisable.

Yeah - this isn't weird. It's just oldskool sexism. Signifiers of femininity = things that make you vulnerable. I think his drag-you-off-to-the-cave-by-your-hair comment was fairly honest assessment of the appeal.


Pix - Jul 16, 2008 6:01:15 pm PDT #7373 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

That's excellent, thank you. (Megan's link, not oldskool sexism.)


megan walker - Jul 16, 2008 6:01:47 pm PDT #7374 of 10001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Okay, my ultra-progressive housemate has just admitted that there was a time when he wouldn't have dated a girl with short hair. WTF?


Cass - Jul 16, 2008 6:01:56 pm PDT #7375 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I can send you the name/number of a lawyer in the area. If she can't give you personalized information, she can send you to someone who can. But I don't feel comfortable talking about anything more precise in a public place.


Pix - Jul 16, 2008 6:03:14 pm PDT #7376 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

Cass, thanks. They have a lawyer all set, so I think we're okay. I'm just helping Drew sift through a mountain of paperwork, and we started worrying about his mom.


Laura - Jul 16, 2008 6:07:12 pm PDT #7377 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Okay, my ultra-progressive housemate has just admitted that there was a time when he wouldn't have dated a girl with short hair. WTF?

I had waist length hair as a teen when my boyfriend said he would break up with me if I cut it. Of course that resulted in my going with the popular at the time Mia Farrow super short cut. He didn't leave me. But it was a clue that it wasn't going to last forever.


SuziQ - Jul 16, 2008 6:07:20 pm PDT #7378 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

my ultra-progressive housemate

The one who, if memory serves, is bald?