What? I'm not allowed to hit people? Wesley: Not people capable of genocide. Angel: Those are exactly the types of people I should be allowed to hit!

'Just Rewards (2)'


Spike's Bitches 41: Thrown together to stand against the forces of darkness  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


omnis_audis - Jul 13, 2008 2:09:21 pm PDT #6888 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

why is "cherry pie" ear wormed in my brain? I haven't played Guitar Hero in a long time, and I certainly don't play that song for enjoyment. Oh my brain. It is wacky!

Thanks ChiKat. Me of all people forgot to be drinking water. Mmmm feels good.

Desk is assembled. Now putting computer back together. Then make the bed. Find a pan and plate, and cook the frozen stir-fry.


omnis_audis - Jul 13, 2008 3:07:20 pm PDT #6889 of 10001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Yikes, I killed the thread. Sorry about that. enough with the unpack n post.


WindSparrow - Jul 13, 2008 3:08:04 pm PDT #6890 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Yay, d! That's a great time, I think!

Happy unpacking, omnis.


Cass - Jul 13, 2008 3:21:03 pm PDT #6891 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

And after that I just said "please don't include me on your political e-mail list any longer. There is a long way to go before the election, and I don't want something as simple as an un-researched, out-of-context forwarded e-mail to cause anger and bad feelings among family members who love each other.

Well said, Tep.

I had to tell my family something similar when I was down on a recent trip. Basically told them that we just weren't going to talk politics so I could continue to like them. I mean, I will honestly talk with them but they'd gone off on a disturbing bend that day and it was at point where we shut up and kept things friendly or ... the other option.


Pix - Jul 13, 2008 3:36:57 pm PDT #6892 of 10001
The status is NOT quo.

My dad's family horrified me with talking politics yesterday. I could see my parents crawling out of their skins right along with me, but we were vastly outnumbered.


Hil R. - Jul 13, 2008 3:42:04 pm PDT #6893 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

One of my relatives just forwarded me an email about how anti-semitic modern Germany is. I wasn't even able to read all the way through before I got too annoyed to constructively respond.


smonster - Jul 13, 2008 4:16:21 pm PDT #6894 of 10001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hello, dears.

Drew, love, my thoughts are with you and your family. I wish you strength.

Connie, I hope the reunion goes better than you think it will. I heard somewhere that the reason family really knows how to push our buttons is that they installed them! I'm so sorry you're going through this right now.

Annabel is v. cute and thoughtful.

o_a, dude, I am with you on the unpacking. amyth and I have been here a month and it's shaping up, but slowly. Oy.

meara, glad you had a good time w/ the girl.

Just popped in to catch up, really. May or may not be on later.


Susan W. - Jul 13, 2008 4:38:58 pm PDT #6895 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Happiness is putting yourself in the hands of a Nordstrom's bra fitter.

I've been wearing some of my old maternity/nursing bras for several weeks, after the last of my favorite but now discontinued bras gave up the ghost. I spent a week or so trying to find some hidden stash of the discontinued style somewhere online, and this is the first time I've had a good chance to get to a mall since I gave up.

The Nordstrom's lady kept apologizing for not having a larger selection in my size and telling me if I came back next weekend during the anniversary sale there would be more. I said I might come back the weekend after that, but I'd be at a writers conference next weekend and needed a better bra right away so I could go try on clothes for said conference. And we eventually found one that worked so well that I think I look five years younger and ten pounds lighter.

I think I found a good outfit to wear to the conference award ceremony. It's business casual, but since contest finalists are apparently called up on stage, I sorta wanted something new and flattering. So I shopped with the mindset I talked about here a few months ago--what does the writer I want to be, the kind of person I think I am on the inside, look like on the outside?

I ended up with a very sheer, very detailed (lots of pleats, sort of a self-fabric dickey panel) blouse worn over a camisole, both in black. It was the last thing I tried on, because I thought it was too busy to be flattering to my body type. But the details fall at just the right places to make me look all hourglassy, and the fact it's black keeps all the detailing from looking too foofy and girly for me. So I'm happy. And I feel pretty. And I've got at least three pairs of pants it could work with.

I'm starting to remember why I used to love to shop...


Susan W. - Jul 13, 2008 4:44:57 pm PDT #6896 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

ION, the garden on the deck off our bedroom, with a glimpse of the view beyond. I love reading out there on cool summer evenings: [link]

Annabel planted the carrots: [link]

Squinty smile: [link]


SailAweigh - Jul 13, 2008 5:34:09 pm PDT #6897 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

d, was that one of the Danskin triathlons? My daughter participated in one here in Wisconsin. She and a couple coworkers did it as a relay. Alexia did the 20k bike. She's all stoked to do another, now.