I love the Dancing Matt videos.
GC, if the eye looks really bad, I'd take her in. I'm an alarmist that way. Lots of kittens lose eyes to infection when they're small. And resp. infection can get serious quickly. Kittens are delicater than their adult counterparts.
(((sj))), hugs for you, sucessful surgery wishes to your nephew. Try to breathe, and trust the doctors. I know you can't really stop worrying, but put that energy to something useful. Make something to send him, or his mom and/or older brother. And don't let yourself get caught in the spiral of worry--do something else when you realize you're futzing over things you can't affect. (((you))) again, just because.
I grew up getting loads of honeybee, yellowjacket and wasp stings every summer. We've always had a problem with wasps getting in the house--I can identify the sound of a wasp bumping along the ceiling in a howling hurricane. The scene in The Shining when the wasps pour out of the "dead" nest in the middle of the night? My worst nightmare.
I was never allergic, until in my 30s I had a wasp sting blow up my arm from shoulder to elbow. My GP said the next one might not affect me that strongly...or I might go into anaphalaxis. No way to tell. So yes, I'd talk to your doctor. You might try a paste of a couple of crushed aspirin, baking soda, and water applied to the site of the sting, though as long as it's been since, I doubt it would help much. It's supposed to draw the toxin to the surface, but it sounds as if it's diffused by now. Still, your doctor can prescribe something to relieve the swelling and any other symptoms. My utmost sympathies--it's miserable, I know.
ETA: Ginger! No falling out of bed, even for Clooney. Make him fall for you if one of you has to! Mend quickly. And consider a few casual cushions scattered on the floor about the bed.